"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Slcik DJ Shoes?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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do you know what a "dj" is? it's about being unique and standing out from the rest. you people need to stop trying to be the same as everyone... go out to a store and try your own sh1t on for yourselves.
i bet youre going to ask if theres a "C&F" way of asking how to get shoes from a "cute HB8" salesgirl now. - luckily i have an answer for that... say "hey i like those shoes over there, wanna fvck?"
Michele l'Arcangelo
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live up to your own advice.oteao99 said:
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but to answer your question, i like my puma's and vans
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I'm pretty sure there was a thread about shoes in the discussion forum, from a week or 2 back. The search button is your friend
.“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's really a matter of personal style. I like the old school shoes like Nike Cortez and Adidas Superstar. I like white shoes since they evoke a sense of cleaniness, match with everything, and look stylish. I'm also starting to like Lacoste sneakers too.oteao99 said:
But trust me you wanna be true to yourself. Go to footlocker and look at the shoes and pick what YOU think looks good on you. Good luck!