Alright, so I talked to this guy who said he was a chick magnet. Blah, blah, we get onto homecoming somehow and I say "She doesn't look like she has that great of an ass, we'll have to find out won't we". Then I straight slap the girl on the ass and she sort of goes away and I think I even saw her telling a friend about it. Chick seemed kind of pissed, oh well. Didn't really know the girl that well either. Funny thing is the guy was like "She liked it, do it again!".
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Slapping a girls ass playfully?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
KillingTime
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Umm, if you don't know the person well be VERY careful or just don't do that because it IS considered sexual harassment and can get you in some serious trouble.
Most women you've known for a while, if they have a playful attitude (most do) won't mind at all if you spank them or something but if you do that to someone you don't know it's just not right.
Most women you've known for a while, if they have a playful attitude (most do) won't mind at all if you spank them or something but if you do that to someone you don't know it's just not right.
Nothing wrong with slapping a chicks arse, most girls love it, but will sometimes act like its "so wrong of you" even tho they love it. Thats when you need a big pair of nuts, and not back down if she gets in strop.
EDIT: Dont listen to the guy above
EDIT: Dont listen to the guy above
Yeah, which is why girls do it to random guys all the time? If you do it playfully it's not harassment. If she keeps going "stop" and you continue to do it or she straight up tells you she doesn't like it, that's harassment.KillingTime said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
aussiegoat55
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I apologize for him, he doesn't know the laws of Pakistan.sexybeast said:
Someone Much cooler
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yeah some guys do it, there are variables tho,. maybe she maces you, maybe her boy or her brother or her dad get mad and wanna stomp you out. A guy on the A train in NYC go shot in the stomach thru his spine, just the other day, for blowing a kiss at some dudes girl in front of him. I don't think he will ever walk again, or fvck for that matter
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
sexybeast- you gotta live in a bubble, you come to bedstuy, brooklyn and try that ****. Actually Fvck it, try that anywhere in NYC, queens, Crooklyn, bronx, manhattan, strong island....This is the real world, i agree with you but that is unsafe advice and way of thinking. you know what-leave the door to your house unlocked. Why lock-em, thats like sayin you scared, and not a man
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah I do live in my own lil bubble, well observed. I cant speak for anyone livin in NYC, just for my england massive
Give me some idea how it is in NYC then. Cant you sexualy kino girls there?
To me this just sounds ridiculous. Sorry guys.
I live in the real world mate, and its good advice IMO. Maybe sh1t is really bad in NYC, maybe most guys are big pvssys in NYC, I dont know.
Oh please lol
Give me some idea how it is in NYC then. Cant you sexualy kino girls there?
To me this just sounds ridiculous. Sorry guys.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Slapping a girl's ass is considered "Sexual Battery" in most States.
You guys are lucky she wasn't that pissed and called the cops and had you arrested.
Don't ever do that sh*t again!
You do NOT touch a girl's ass whom you do not already have proof of intimacy (sexual, or sensual touching. kissing) that can hold up in a court of law. Witnesses being the number one asset.
Dude, seriously, don't do that sh*t.
you really don't know what kind of girl you're messing with.
You DO NOT want to be charged as a Sex Felon and in jail.
Do not confuse sexual battery with KINO!
You sexual escalate with a consenting adult.
You do not slap a girl's as for the fvck of it.
I've seen guys just touch a girl's arm get FIRED!
And a guy touch a girl sexually "suggestively" get fired and ARRESTED!
You guys are lucky she wasn't that pissed and called the cops and had you arrested.
Don't ever do that sh*t again!
You do NOT touch a girl's ass whom you do not already have proof of intimacy (sexual, or sensual touching. kissing) that can hold up in a court of law. Witnesses being the number one asset.
Dude, seriously, don't do that sh*t.
you really don't know what kind of girl you're messing with.
You DO NOT want to be charged as a Sex Felon and in jail.
Do not confuse sexual battery with KINO!
You sexual escalate with a consenting adult.
You do not slap a girl's as for the fvck of it.
I've seen guys just touch a girl's arm get FIRED!
And a guy touch a girl sexually "suggestively" get fired and ARRESTED!
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Keep slapping random girls asses and you gonna be cuffed in the back of some police car...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NewDestiny47
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Holy out of touch with reality batman! I dare you to go out on the street tomorrow, find some random women and just slap them in the ass and see if your not in jail at the end of the day.ElStud said:
If you KNOW someone it's no big deal, you can spank them, squeeze their boobs, whatever while playing around and they won't care. If you do that to random people that's just creepy, will give you a horrible reputation as a guy who can't get any and therfore goes around touching random women, and yes, you CAN be arrested.
NeedsAGuitar
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What man would charge for sexual harassment if a girl touched his ass?ElStud said:
Killer_Demo
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depends on the girl, if u got a gut feeling she'd like it then y not?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.