"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skype, Long distance, no idea for topic name

KingWizard

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Hi Dj's. Wizard here
Was playing games on skype with friends lately, my bro added to us a girl. My friends was like" omfg, a girl playing with us, omomgomgomg oneone!!". I was rather, "da ****, attention ***** allert". I was a bit right when i think about it, but.. after a few days, she told smth like this: "i will tell you what uwant to know etc.etc. but buy me a KFC and get yourself webcam so I can see you". I am bit in the state of mind**** right now. She lives a bit far, like 400 km's from me, but somehow I agreed to this deal. I said I will come at holidays or something. Now I am thinking if its good decision. I don't know if she's in, cause she is flirting with me a bit, she didnt said she has a boyfriend (well, she has, but i dont give a **** - just added this to get some help from you).I dont know what I should do. I hear my Dj's part of mind saying in Pook's voice: "you are the great catch, next her. You aren't going in long distance relathionship cause it sucks anyway".But on the other hand I am a bit curious of "What if". Any conclusion? F.e. cut contact, the real man dont have time to sit on skype, they are climbing mountains and graduating to best school in their "state". Or "Bro, go there, flirt, maybe you can get lucky, you will go sideseeing if not". First time this situation happenned to me. IMO she is just flaking, but maybe I am wrong. Any ideas for DJ stucked in a new situation?
Peace guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KingWizard

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it is THAT obvious I should next? Everyday is a lesson, huh?
Time will teach you a lesson my young gee wiz knight!
Edit1: just right now I ahve realized, that I failed the test. " I will tell you but U will visit me" my answer:"sure" . Wrooong. I should say smth like: "are You invitng ME? your boyfriend is THAT boring?"
Lesson learned
edit2: Visiting women living 400 km away? DESPERATE
Lesson learned
Edit3: No more mr.Desperate Wussy in my head. Going to be more aware of what women says.
 
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