"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Dj's. Wizard here
Was playing games on skype with friends lately, my bro added to us a girl. My friends was like" omfg, a girl playing with us, omomgomgomg oneone!!". I was rather, "da ****, attention ***** allert". I was a bit right when i think about it, but.. after a few days, she told smth like this: "i will tell you what uwant to know etc.etc. but buy me a KFC and get yourself webcam so I can see you". I am bit in the state of mind**** right now. She lives a bit far, like 400 km's from me, but somehow I agreed to this deal. I said I will come at holidays or something. Now I am thinking if its good decision. I don't know if she's in, cause she is flirting with me a bit, she didnt said she has a boyfriend (well, she has, but i dont give a **** - just added this to get some help from you).I dont know what I should do. I hear my Dj's part of mind saying in Pook's voice: "you are the great catch, next her. You aren't going in long distance relathionship cause it sucks anyway".But on the other hand I am a bit curious of "What if". Any conclusion? F.e. cut contact, the real man dont have time to sit on skype, they are climbing mountains and graduating to best school in their "state". Or "Bro, go there, flirt, maybe you can get lucky, you will go sideseeing if not". First time this situation happenned to me. IMO she is just flaking, but maybe I am wrong. Any ideas for DJ stucked in a new situation?
Peace guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it is THAT obvious I should next? Everyday is a lesson, huh?
Time will teach you a lesson my young gee wiz knight!
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Edit1: just right now I ahve realized, that I failed the test. " I will tell you but U will visit me" my answer:"sure" . Wrooong. I should say smth like: "are You invitng ME? your boyfriend is THAT boring?"
Lesson learned
edit2: Visiting women living 400 km away? DESPERATE
Lesson learned
Edit3: No more mr.Desperate Wussy in my head. Going to be more aware of what women says.
 
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