"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skipping Valentine's Day

gravityeyelids

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With this whole valentine's day nonsense going around, it's hard to sort through. The main thing i think is that if you're not in a LTR, you should generally try to avoid doing much. Or if you have a main plate you want to eventually LTR, it might be a good idea to do something with her.

But what about us single guys who don't have any serious plates? I have one F-Buddy, who i'm definitely not hanging out with on V-day, and I have a couple other girls that i'm talking to, but havent actually hooked up with (dont really consider those plates). I would like to get laid. which is the best option and how do i execute it?:

(1) Should I hit any of these girls im talking to up to hangout? How do I ask them? I was thinking something lame like "Hey, wanna drink wine with me and make fun of all the people in serious relationships?" IDK how well that would work though.

(2) I have a few cute girls on Tinder (i know, flame me if you want) that live like 3 miles away. Havent tried to make plans with them, but should I throw a hail mary out there and hope they are desperate for a v-day date? I don't care if i never talk to these chicks again.

(3) Part of me just wants to stay in and not deal with all the nonsense and watch the new season of House of Cards (which i'm amped for), and let the chodes fawn over the girls

(4) Some DJ's have mentioned that V-day is like christmas for the single guy because no girl wants to be alone on V-day, so they'll be much more receptive to opening/one-night-stands..Should i go out to the parties and bars?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dgwizdal

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In my experience most girls who are single band together on valentines day, sit at home, gossip and drink wine together.

Hit up one of your plates but make it non-nonchalant. Let her hamster spin about it being Valentines day but in your mind its just a Friday. All else fails - reward your FB with a bit of rapport.
 

TheCWord

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Why not take a day off? I know for me personally, I am using House of Cards as motivation to finish up this project by tomorrow. If I get it done, I get to have a marathon of Kevin Spacey telling me what he's about to do before he does it and Robin Wright acting like a c*nt.
 

Megaman XIV

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F*** Valentine's day! It's just for couples! If you're a single man and go to a bar, it will be a sausagefest!

Give up on V-day aka national tricking day if you had nobody a week prior. otherwise, v-day is overblown bullshyt.

Get equipped.
 

gravityeyelids

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haha Canadian Club and House of Cards it is! Might try to invite some girl over still though
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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