Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Skinny wrists

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Hey all-
I'm working on bulking up with free weights... it's working quite well for me (6-8 lbs this month.) My arms are starting to develop quite nicely... but I still have these d@mned skinny toothpick wrists. Can anyone recommend an exercise to help my wrists thicken so they don't look unbalanced with my arms? Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sorry..you can't increase the bone size with an exercise. Just hope you grow more because that's the only way to increase wrist size. But honestly, small joints are usually considered a good thing, in that they make your muscles look bigger. If you look at almost all pro bodybuilders, they have smaller joints, which help to emphasize the muscles. Not saying you or I would like to be even close to that big, though.
 

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The only way you can possibly get any meat near or around your wrists is to work on your forearms but they develope VERY slowly and they start getting bigger around your elbows first and it works its way towards the wrists. Like the first reply says though, skinny wrists are not really a bad thing because they will make the rest of your arms look bigger.
 

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Thanks Drex, that answers my question, as well as my curiosity why, when I've been doing both regular and behind the back barbell wrist curls with significant weight, I've only been developing muscle at the back of the forearm. Guess I just need to keep at it, then. And I'm not looking for big, hulking wrists, just some meat on the bones is all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a badly-kept secret.
Lil' wrists are a blessing. They make your forearms look a lot bigger.
 

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Well, if nothing else, this thread's got me a lot less worried about my wrists. Thanks for the advice and positivity.
 

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Plenty of heavy back work is the best way to develop impressive forearms - esp barbell bent over rows, chins, close grip underhand pulldowns and as Wheelin says, deadlifts.
 

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I'd also suggest partial rack lock outs and holds. These seem to be the most taxing on my forearms. Also keep in mind these muscles get a lot of work day to day, so, like the calves, they need a lot of work to really grow.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by BerzerkFury
wheelinanddealin....deadlifts hardly work the forearms at all...the weight hangs from your arms, you dont move your arms at all deadlifting, you use your legs and explode upwards, keeping your arms straight and locked at your sides
You have obviously never done deadlifts with a decent amount of weight then.

Try holding onto a bar with 400+ pounds on it for any period of time. Then come back and tell me it doesn't work your forearms.
 
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