"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dapper Don

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I'm a pretty skinny guy. I work out, and have some very light musculature but still pretty thin. Just that body type.

Anyway, I'm wondering if you guys think I could pull wearing wife beaters off. I like how they look, but do you think it would work?

You usually only see the bigger guys wearing them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ShizamDaMan

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Just toss a button up shirt over it and you're cool. But going solo-beater is trashy.
 

Dapper Don

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woah... quick replies.

Thanks guys. Button up shirt sounds good.
 

kave

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deff wrong to wear out..like the other post above looks trashy (unless ur working out playin ball etc.)and especialy not to pick up chicks unless their like total rednecks (i know some who would go for that) that like that trashy look..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jerky Boi

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Yeah, I don't know all that many girls that would be all that attracted to a plain wife beater unless you're swoll as hell..haha The overshirt works well though. I'd try that
 

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I've been working out for about 3 years or so and at first I was keen to show off my **** but lately I prefer to keep it under wraps! A well fitting t-shirt where your arms just fill the sleeves can turn on a girl on more than walking around in the typical "buff wear". Besides, its more fun when girls think you're just a cool guy and then in your flirting she pokes your stomach or something and then she's like o0o0o00o and wants a look under the hood ;)

In my experience if you're the cool guy who makes her laugh and also happens to turn her on when your shirts off she's gonna want you a lot more than the guy who is so obsessed with showing off his body like its his ace card because he expects women to want him for that foremostly - a jock.

All this said, you can pull women - usually slutty ones - with playing the jock card and it DOES work but personally its not me and I don't think pretending someone you're not is "what we're all about at the DJ centre" :p

So yeah go for the wife beater when you're on a trip down to get some milk, but try to give the appearence you're just a layed back guy that doesn't worry about the standards set by society, rather than the "everyone look at me I've got the goods" effect.

**** that was a lot of words about wife beaters.
 
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