"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skinny Face

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Guys i'm with a problem, i was very fat 85 kilos (+- 187 pounds), and now my weight is around 159 pounds, i have a slim, defined body, not very muscular as you guys can see in the pics below. the thing is girls tell me i'm different, like i have a better body but my face looks worse than it used to, it looks very thin and not manly enough, in fact i got lots of compliments on my body but my face skinny as it is drives them away.

also i do some tanning in tanning beds, if i didnt it would look much worse, cuz you could see the bags under eyes and a very tired face.




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what can i do to have a more round face, more manly dunno, should i put up some pounds, eat more pasta, more potatoes, i'm clueless.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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xilley

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WTF?!
round face looks bad man...

don't U think skinny face looks a lot better?!
 

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girls tell me it doesnt, have you took a look at the pics? i look like iggy pop with less hair :(
 

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That happened to me a couple of years back. I've put on weight since and my face is fuller, but you know what? I'm not totally convinced that women were turned off back then because they sure didn't act like they were, even though many said I was too skinny.

Though you don't want to look like you might have AIDS, right?

Besides putting some weight back on, what goes a long way is a different hair style (somewhat longer hair, cut and blown to create lift, squared shape in front) will frame your face differently and help to modify your appearance by balancing out the facial shape.
 

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Honestly i think you are over-exaggerating.

You have two choices...stay the way you are, or get bigger.

If you get bigger whether it is fatter or muscular your face will increase i believe but i can not say for sure how much. Its somewhat genetics too.

And i don't know what chicks are telling you that but man up and screw them. If you are happy then fine, if not put some muscle on. I doubt that you lose a lot of chicks cause of a skinny face
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xilley

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i am not gay and sh*tt but you look good just like before though.
with a round face you would look ugly with shades. lol
 

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thing is i used to have a longer hair but i started to lose it a lot so i had to cut it really short buzzcut.
 

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that's not a skinny face, you are either AWing or i don't know what.
and trust me, i have a skinny face (you should've seen me on my prom dance video) and i am nowhere near 180pds.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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