"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skinny Face

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Guys i'm with a problem, i was very fat 85 kilos (+- 187 pounds), and now my weight is around 159 pounds, i have a slim, defined body, not very muscular as you guys can see in the pics below. the thing is girls tell me i'm different, like i have a better body but my face looks worse than it used to, it looks very thin and not manly enough, in fact i got lots of compliments on my body but my face skinny as it is drives them away.

also i do some tanning in tanning beds, if i didnt it would look much worse, cuz you could see the bags under eyes and a very tired face.




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what can i do to have a more round face, more manly dunno, should i put up some pounds, eat more pasta, more potatoes, i'm clueless.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WTF?!
round face looks bad man...

don't U think skinny face looks a lot better?!
 

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girls tell me it doesnt, have you took a look at the pics? i look like iggy pop with less hair :(
 

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That happened to me a couple of years back. I've put on weight since and my face is fuller, but you know what? I'm not totally convinced that women were turned off back then because they sure didn't act like they were, even though many said I was too skinny.

Though you don't want to look like you might have AIDS, right?

Besides putting some weight back on, what goes a long way is a different hair style (somewhat longer hair, cut and blown to create lift, squared shape in front) will frame your face differently and help to modify your appearance by balancing out the facial shape.
 

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Honestly i think you are over-exaggerating.

You have two choices...stay the way you are, or get bigger.

If you get bigger whether it is fatter or muscular your face will increase i believe but i can not say for sure how much. Its somewhat genetics too.

And i don't know what chicks are telling you that but man up and screw them. If you are happy then fine, if not put some muscle on. I doubt that you lose a lot of chicks cause of a skinny face
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xilley

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i am not gay and sh*tt but you look good just like before though.
with a round face you would look ugly with shades. lol
 

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thing is i used to have a longer hair but i started to lose it a lot so i had to cut it really short buzzcut.
 

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that's not a skinny face, you are either AWing or i don't know what.
and trust me, i have a skinny face (you should've seen me on my prom dance video) and i am nowhere near 180pds.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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