"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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skinny asian can't bulk

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im asian...5'8, 125 pounds, no one in my family is over 150 pounds, and all the women are under 100 pounds...

6% body fat,

i used diesel's bulking program, since janurary, with whey supplements, but now i am only 127 pounds...

should i be making any modifications? can i fight my genes?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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Can you fight your genes? Yes.

Buy the book "Advanced Sports Nutrition". Read up on the diet suggestions and outlines. Follow those. Once you get your diet established, you supplement. Creatine is always a good choice. Popular one. Diet is key, though.
 

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Diet is very important, but that aside, are you getting any stronger? One of the things I've noticed a lot with people who aren't seeing much results at the gym, is they aren't adding weight to the bar regularly. If you want to grow more you need to create progressive overload, and increasing the weight you are lifting is one of the best ways to do this.

Also how is your routine looking?
 
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Oooohhhh, you're asian and you can't gain weight.

BULL****!

You can't expect to see results come that fast. You only started in Januray! Keep at it and it will come. You are in it for the long run.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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brucevangeorge said:
Oooohhhh, you're asian and you can't gain weight.

BULL****!

You can't expect to see results come that fast. You only started in Januray! Keep at it and it will come. You are in it for the long run.

Two pounds in that period of time? Surely something is wrong. You should be seeing more results than that. I would put big money on the diet. Big money. Also, many people have horrible workout intensity, and form.
 

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I highly doubt you followed Diesel's plan as well as you could. Even though it has its flaws, it will net any guy more than 2 pounds if followed correctly.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
Two pounds in that period of time? Surely something is wrong. You should be seeing more results than that. I would put big money on the diet. Big money. Also, many people have horrible workout intensity, and form.
Whoops. Sorry misread.

Looks like it is only 2 pounds.


Solution: eat, eat, eat, eat some more.
 

Macgyver

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you can bulk, but it is HARD. It's mostly from the diet, I don't mean you should stuff yourself, but stuff yourself with the right foods. It's gonna be expensive if you were wondering :( I speak the truth I'm a hard gainer.
 

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I gained 5 lbs in a year, I'm asian. I gain more weight when I stopped working out. If you have an asian diet, chances are you won't bulk a lot unless you eat a lot of fat (ie chinese cuisine). I got ****ing strong though, I was 140 and I db press 80lbs in each hands, did wide grip pullups with db, arm curled 45 lbs, reverse rope ext over 120lbs, ect.

another thing too is that especialyl if you are 5'8", it's not that nice to be bulk if you are that short, It'll just make you look more like a midget. Work the shoulders and the back but don't go nuts on the lats, I see too many 5'8" dudes walking around like the pigeon on bugs bunny, not a pretty picture.

Don't worry about bulking up so much, results are much more important.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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