"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skinny asian can't bulk

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im asian...5'8, 125 pounds, no one in my family is over 150 pounds, and all the women are under 100 pounds...

6% body fat,

i used diesel's bulking program, since janurary, with whey supplements, but now i am only 127 pounds...

should i be making any modifications? can i fight my genes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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Can you fight your genes? Yes.

Buy the book "Advanced Sports Nutrition". Read up on the diet suggestions and outlines. Follow those. Once you get your diet established, you supplement. Creatine is always a good choice. Popular one. Diet is key, though.
 

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Diet is very important, but that aside, are you getting any stronger? One of the things I've noticed a lot with people who aren't seeing much results at the gym, is they aren't adding weight to the bar regularly. If you want to grow more you need to create progressive overload, and increasing the weight you are lifting is one of the best ways to do this.

Also how is your routine looking?
 
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Oooohhhh, you're asian and you can't gain weight.

BULL****!

You can't expect to see results come that fast. You only started in Januray! Keep at it and it will come. You are in it for the long run.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz

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brucevangeorge said:
Oooohhhh, you're asian and you can't gain weight.

BULL****!

You can't expect to see results come that fast. You only started in Januray! Keep at it and it will come. You are in it for the long run.

Two pounds in that period of time? Surely something is wrong. You should be seeing more results than that. I would put big money on the diet. Big money. Also, many people have horrible workout intensity, and form.
 

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I highly doubt you followed Diesel's plan as well as you could. Even though it has its flaws, it will net any guy more than 2 pounds if followed correctly.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
Two pounds in that period of time? Surely something is wrong. You should be seeing more results than that. I would put big money on the diet. Big money. Also, many people have horrible workout intensity, and form.
Whoops. Sorry misread.

Looks like it is only 2 pounds.


Solution: eat, eat, eat, eat some more.
 

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you can bulk, but it is HARD. It's mostly from the diet, I don't mean you should stuff yourself, but stuff yourself with the right foods. It's gonna be expensive if you were wondering :( I speak the truth I'm a hard gainer.
 

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I gained 5 lbs in a year, I'm asian. I gain more weight when I stopped working out. If you have an asian diet, chances are you won't bulk a lot unless you eat a lot of fat (ie chinese cuisine). I got ****ing strong though, I was 140 and I db press 80lbs in each hands, did wide grip pullups with db, arm curled 45 lbs, reverse rope ext over 120lbs, ect.

another thing too is that especialyl if you are 5'8", it's not that nice to be bulk if you are that short, It'll just make you look more like a midget. Work the shoulders and the back but don't go nuts on the lats, I see too many 5'8" dudes walking around like the pigeon on bugs bunny, not a pretty picture.

Don't worry about bulking up so much, results are much more important.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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