"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have very skinny forearms, 2 inches at the skinniest part. Im about 5'10". I have no idea how much I weigh. just turned 16.

How can I get them wider? I don't want to put on fat though.

I eat a lot, more than some of my bigger friends, and still I'm skinny. I tend to eat healthier than them too. They'll eat Mcdonalds sometimes, and other stuff like that. Where I give in is snacks. I often get a snack towards the end of school, usually candy or microwaveable food. What something healthy I can buy at walgreens, that would be good for a cheap snack afterschool?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jesus christ dude... read the ****ing stickies.

GUIDE TO BULKING UP:
DIESEL said:
This board is repetitive as fukk. Newbies come in and pretty much ask the same question over and over.

"HOW DO I GAIN MASS ON X BODYPART??"

"I'M A SKINNY BASTARD AND I WANT TO GET BIGGER."

etc, etc, etc.
 

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Gain muscle mass all over your body, and with it, your forearms will get bigger. The deadlifts and barbell rows you'll be doing with help add size to your forearms.

-shaun
 

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dot said:
I have very skinny forearms, 2 inches at the skinniest part. Im about 5'10". I have no idea how much I weigh. just turned 16.

How can I get them wider? I don't want to put on fat though.

I eat a lot, more than some of my bigger friends, and still I'm skinny. I tend to eat healthier than them too. They'll eat Mcdonalds sometimes, and other stuff like that. Where I give in is snacks. I often get a snack towards the end of school, usually candy or microwaveable food. What something healthy I can buy at walgreens, that would be good for a cheap snack afterschool?
If there is every a problem in your life, 99% of the time it can be fixed with deadlifts.
 

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If you want bigger harms your gonna have to hit your tricep & bis at least once a week.

As for a snack,go w/ your parents grocery shopping and buy tons of fruit!

Good Luck!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blinkwatt said:
If you want bigger harms your gonna have to hit your tricep & bis at least once a week.

As for a snack,go w/ your parents grocery shopping and buy tons of fruit!

Good Luck!
Don't listen to this guy. He's 148lbs and has the build of a child prostitute.
 

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John_Galt said:
Don't listen to this guy. He's 148lbs and has the build of a child prostitute.
You have yet to prove me wrong on anything.

By the way,where's your proof from your own personal results that anything you post has actually worked for you?
 

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I don't validate myself to you. lol. Everyone that's small follows your advice. My arms are big, and yes junior, far bigger than yours, and all my movements with it are compound. You're 148lbs, and you're small. You'd think you'd get that, but you seem to think it's something to be proud of.
 

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John_Galt said:
You're 148lbs, and you're small. You'd think you'd get that, but you seem to think it's something to be proud of.
How stupid can you be,go look up bodybuilding class/divisions and see how they are divided.
 

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You're 148lbs. You're small. You'd think you'd get that when some guys big chest is in your face while he AMOGs you in a bar. Seriously man, start putting on weight, not taking it off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're 148lbs. You're small.

Yes I'm small at 5 8",but weight means nothing when you lift for looks. I can care less about how much I lift,I passed up my strength goal twice over when I first started.

start putting on weight, not taking it off.

Again for 'novice' class for 150lbs. and under I'm overweight,which is the comp. I might enter next year.
 

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Yes I'm small at 5 8",but weight means nothing when you lift for looks. I can care less about how much I lift,I passed up my strength goal twice over when I first started.
Strength training lol. You probably can bench press more than me, but I'm twice the size of you lol. I sir, bodybuild, not strength train.

Again for 'novice' class for 150lbs. and under I'm overweight,which is the comp. I might enter next year.
You're 5'8'' at 148, you're in light weight and if you keep going down, you'll soon make it to bantam weight(gay). You should be at least in middle or if you had dedication, light heavy weight. Stop selling yourself short, and get big.
 

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John_Galt said:
You're 5'8'' at 148, you're in light weight and if you keep going down, you'll soon make it to bantam weight(gay). You should be at least in middle or if you had dedication, light heavy weight. Stop selling yourself short, and get big.
http://fitnessinmind.com/mainindex.htm

The guy holding the trophy weighted in at 148lbs and is taller then me,he won the class I'm probably going into next year. How could I w/ less expierence and being shorter fit into a heavier weight class?
 

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blinkwatt said:
http://fitnessinmind.com/mainindex.htm

The guy holding the trophy weighted in at 148lbs and is taller then me,he won the class I'm probably going into next year. How could I w/ less expierence and being shorter fit into a heavier weight class?
What exactly is your obsession with weight classes? It doesn't make you bigger. The guy in that picture is SMALL!!! Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

And to add, you can put on more weight and less experience.
 

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What exactly is your obsession with weight classes?

It's not an obsession but it's the exact weight class I would enter in.

It doesn't make you bigger.

Not everything is about being bigger.

The guy in that picture is SMALL!!!

I would love to see you say that to his face.

Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

Not once have I ever said I want to be 'big'.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What exactly is your obsession with weight classes?

It's not an obsession but it's the exact weight class I would enter in.
And, why would you need to know that?'

It doesn't make you bigger.

Not everything is about being bigger.
Yes it is.

The guy in that picture is SMALL!!!

I would love to see you say that to his face.
What's he going to do? Ring me with those 13 inch biceps. When you look at those pictures dude, you have to take into consideration that there is a difference between being RIPPED and BIG. If that guy had a t-shirt on, he'd look like a lanky bastard.

Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

Not once have I ever said I want to be 'big'.
Big is everything. You should probably STOP giving muscle building advice, because it's a game of getting BIG!
 

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blinkwatt, your recommendation to do 'biceps and triceps at least once a week' is bad advice.

im trying my best to stay off the 'blinkwatt is a pencil' bandwagon, if your advice is good than it doesnt matter. but right now it's lousy.

and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
blinkwatt, your recommendation to do 'biceps and triceps at least once a week' is bad advice.

im trying my best to stay off the 'blinkwatt is a pencil' bandwagon, if your advice is good than it doesnt matter. but right now it's lousy.

and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
Show me proof that hitting the ANY muscle extremely hard once a week isn't better then hitting it hard twice a week?
 

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Show me proof that hitting the ANY muscle extremely hard once a week isn't better then hitting it hard twice a week?
lol. You're so small. Goto hell and die.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
Only one person posted proof that they have a better build then me. Unless you post proof you have no right saying you look better then 'X'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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