"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skinny arms?

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I have very skinny forearms, 2 inches at the skinniest part. Im about 5'10". I have no idea how much I weigh. just turned 16.

How can I get them wider? I don't want to put on fat though.

I eat a lot, more than some of my bigger friends, and still I'm skinny. I tend to eat healthier than them too. They'll eat Mcdonalds sometimes, and other stuff like that. Where I give in is snacks. I often get a snack towards the end of school, usually candy or microwaveable food. What something healthy I can buy at walgreens, that would be good for a cheap snack afterschool?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jesus christ dude... read the ****ing stickies.

GUIDE TO BULKING UP:
DIESEL said:
This board is repetitive as fukk. Newbies come in and pretty much ask the same question over and over.

"HOW DO I GAIN MASS ON X BODYPART??"

"I'M A SKINNY BASTARD AND I WANT TO GET BIGGER."

etc, etc, etc.
 

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Gain muscle mass all over your body, and with it, your forearms will get bigger. The deadlifts and barbell rows you'll be doing with help add size to your forearms.

-shaun
 

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dot said:
I have very skinny forearms, 2 inches at the skinniest part. Im about 5'10". I have no idea how much I weigh. just turned 16.

How can I get them wider? I don't want to put on fat though.

I eat a lot, more than some of my bigger friends, and still I'm skinny. I tend to eat healthier than them too. They'll eat Mcdonalds sometimes, and other stuff like that. Where I give in is snacks. I often get a snack towards the end of school, usually candy or microwaveable food. What something healthy I can buy at walgreens, that would be good for a cheap snack afterschool?
If there is every a problem in your life, 99% of the time it can be fixed with deadlifts.
 

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If you want bigger harms your gonna have to hit your tricep & bis at least once a week.

As for a snack,go w/ your parents grocery shopping and buy tons of fruit!

Good Luck!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt said:
If you want bigger harms your gonna have to hit your tricep & bis at least once a week.

As for a snack,go w/ your parents grocery shopping and buy tons of fruit!

Good Luck!
Don't listen to this guy. He's 148lbs and has the build of a child prostitute.
 

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John_Galt said:
Don't listen to this guy. He's 148lbs and has the build of a child prostitute.
You have yet to prove me wrong on anything.

By the way,where's your proof from your own personal results that anything you post has actually worked for you?
 

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I don't validate myself to you. lol. Everyone that's small follows your advice. My arms are big, and yes junior, far bigger than yours, and all my movements with it are compound. You're 148lbs, and you're small. You'd think you'd get that, but you seem to think it's something to be proud of.
 

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John_Galt said:
You're 148lbs, and you're small. You'd think you'd get that, but you seem to think it's something to be proud of.
How stupid can you be,go look up bodybuilding class/divisions and see how they are divided.
 

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You're 148lbs. You're small. You'd think you'd get that when some guys big chest is in your face while he AMOGs you in a bar. Seriously man, start putting on weight, not taking it off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're 148lbs. You're small.

Yes I'm small at 5 8",but weight means nothing when you lift for looks. I can care less about how much I lift,I passed up my strength goal twice over when I first started.

start putting on weight, not taking it off.

Again for 'novice' class for 150lbs. and under I'm overweight,which is the comp. I might enter next year.
 

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Yes I'm small at 5 8",but weight means nothing when you lift for looks. I can care less about how much I lift,I passed up my strength goal twice over when I first started.
Strength training lol. You probably can bench press more than me, but I'm twice the size of you lol. I sir, bodybuild, not strength train.

Again for 'novice' class for 150lbs. and under I'm overweight,which is the comp. I might enter next year.
You're 5'8'' at 148, you're in light weight and if you keep going down, you'll soon make it to bantam weight(gay). You should be at least in middle or if you had dedication, light heavy weight. Stop selling yourself short, and get big.
 

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John_Galt said:
You're 5'8'' at 148, you're in light weight and if you keep going down, you'll soon make it to bantam weight(gay). You should be at least in middle or if you had dedication, light heavy weight. Stop selling yourself short, and get big.
http://fitnessinmind.com/mainindex.htm

The guy holding the trophy weighted in at 148lbs and is taller then me,he won the class I'm probably going into next year. How could I w/ less expierence and being shorter fit into a heavier weight class?
 

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blinkwatt said:
http://fitnessinmind.com/mainindex.htm

The guy holding the trophy weighted in at 148lbs and is taller then me,he won the class I'm probably going into next year. How could I w/ less expierence and being shorter fit into a heavier weight class?
What exactly is your obsession with weight classes? It doesn't make you bigger. The guy in that picture is SMALL!!! Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

And to add, you can put on more weight and less experience.
 

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What exactly is your obsession with weight classes?

It's not an obsession but it's the exact weight class I would enter in.

It doesn't make you bigger.

Not everything is about being bigger.

The guy in that picture is SMALL!!!

I would love to see you say that to his face.

Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

Not once have I ever said I want to be 'big'.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What exactly is your obsession with weight classes?

It's not an obsession but it's the exact weight class I would enter in.
And, why would you need to know that?'

It doesn't make you bigger.

Not everything is about being bigger.
Yes it is.

The guy in that picture is SMALL!!!

I would love to see you say that to his face.
What's he going to do? Ring me with those 13 inch biceps. When you look at those pictures dude, you have to take into consideration that there is a difference between being RIPPED and BIG. If that guy had a t-shirt on, he'd look like a lanky bastard.

Put on some damn weight. Being cut doesn't make you big. Being big makes you big.

Not once have I ever said I want to be 'big'.
Big is everything. You should probably STOP giving muscle building advice, because it's a game of getting BIG!
 

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blinkwatt, your recommendation to do 'biceps and triceps at least once a week' is bad advice.

im trying my best to stay off the 'blinkwatt is a pencil' bandwagon, if your advice is good than it doesnt matter. but right now it's lousy.

and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
blinkwatt, your recommendation to do 'biceps and triceps at least once a week' is bad advice.

im trying my best to stay off the 'blinkwatt is a pencil' bandwagon, if your advice is good than it doesnt matter. but right now it's lousy.

and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
Show me proof that hitting the ANY muscle extremely hard once a week isn't better then hitting it hard twice a week?
 

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Show me proof that hitting the ANY muscle extremely hard once a week isn't better then hitting it hard twice a week?
lol. You're so small. Goto hell and die.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
and i dont care about your progress or your pics. there are lots of ppl here who look better than you but dont need to be validated on this forum.
Only one person posted proof that they have a better build then me. Unless you post proof you have no right saying you look better then 'X'.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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