"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SKILL LEVEL-what type are you?

COD

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Amateurs-they tend to be timid, incongruent, inconsistant,etc
pre-occupied with the competition.
Mistakes include being too eagar, hesitation,non interesting, unskilled.
Found in bars, online,speed dating.

PLAYERS-these guys may be loud, obvious, rely on looks, they fake cofidence or compensate.
They view the competition as a threat.
Mistakes include:skips steps, over-confident, too ****y,sexual, often try too hard, attention vampire.
Can be found primarily at bars/clubs/online.

PICKUP ARTIST-subtle, smooth, confident, congruent body language.
They embrace the competition and often prevail.
Mistakes are few usually consisting of comfort building, over-qualifying themselves.
Can be found at bars/clubs mostly, infrequently online.
NATURAL-subtle, smooth,relaxed and fun. They rely on looks, charm, experience.
They are unaffected by the competition.
Mistakes include -lacks systematic approach methods, default settings.
Found mostly in the field (cold approaches)

WANNABES-they tend to be shy, reluctant, quiet,emotional,no skills.
They are afraid, threatened by the competition.
MISTAKES include;giving up easily, anti-social, low confidence, lack knowledge.
Found at clubs, net, speed dating.
NEWBIES-very shy, reluctant, awkward, poor self image,low self esteem.
They avoid the competition at all costs.
Mistakes include: being sketchy, creepy, afraid,clueless.
Found at singles dances, net, bars,match making intro services

GOOD TIPS INCLUDE: KNOWLEDGE 7 EXPERIENCE IN ADDITION TO-----ARRIVING EARLY TO DECRESE THE COMPETITION, SCOPE OUT YOUR TARGETS, DON’T HESITATE WHEN MAKING FIRST CONTACT, ACTIVE DISS-INTEREST, ENTICE BY EMAIL/VERBAL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rex Man

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Where the hell did you get these 'types'? Utter Rubbish. For example:

NATURAL-subtle, smooth,relaxed and fun. They rely on looks, charm, experience
If they're a natural, why would they have to rely on experience? Please leave the high school psychology to the bums at the train station.
 

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Are these the only types?

What about penis Salesman?

DJ

Unaffiliated?
 

Mr. Wolf

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Motherfvcker!


Someone give this guy some credit, I already did, I can't nomore.. Son of a b1tch.. Fvck! Someone???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what about sexual guys who hook up with girls only when they feel like but they dont like to play the "game" too often?
 

xdreamz

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i would fall under amateur - wannabe - player and if i would to create my own i would be a lame ass.
 
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COD, nice summation!! :up:
 
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