"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SKILL LEVEL-what type are you?

COD

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Amateurs-they tend to be timid, incongruent, inconsistant,etc
pre-occupied with the competition.
Mistakes include being too eagar, hesitation,non interesting, unskilled.
Found in bars, online,speed dating.

PLAYERS-these guys may be loud, obvious, rely on looks, they fake cofidence or compensate.
They view the competition as a threat.
Mistakes include:skips steps, over-confident, too ****y,sexual, often try too hard, attention vampire.
Can be found primarily at bars/clubs/online.

PICKUP ARTIST-subtle, smooth, confident, congruent body language.
They embrace the competition and often prevail.
Mistakes are few usually consisting of comfort building, over-qualifying themselves.
Can be found at bars/clubs mostly, infrequently online.
NATURAL-subtle, smooth,relaxed and fun. They rely on looks, charm, experience.
They are unaffected by the competition.
Mistakes include -lacks systematic approach methods, default settings.
Found mostly in the field (cold approaches)

WANNABES-they tend to be shy, reluctant, quiet,emotional,no skills.
They are afraid, threatened by the competition.
MISTAKES include;giving up easily, anti-social, low confidence, lack knowledge.
Found at clubs, net, speed dating.
NEWBIES-very shy, reluctant, awkward, poor self image,low self esteem.
They avoid the competition at all costs.
Mistakes include: being sketchy, creepy, afraid,clueless.
Found at singles dances, net, bars,match making intro services

GOOD TIPS INCLUDE: KNOWLEDGE 7 EXPERIENCE IN ADDITION TO-----ARRIVING EARLY TO DECRESE THE COMPETITION, SCOPE OUT YOUR TARGETS, DON’T HESITATE WHEN MAKING FIRST CONTACT, ACTIVE DISS-INTEREST, ENTICE BY EMAIL/VERBAL.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where the hell did you get these 'types'? Utter Rubbish. For example:

NATURAL-subtle, smooth,relaxed and fun. They rely on looks, charm, experience
If they're a natural, why would they have to rely on experience? Please leave the high school psychology to the bums at the train station.
 

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Are these the only types?

What about penis Salesman?

DJ

Unaffiliated?
 

Mr. Wolf

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Motherfvcker!


Someone give this guy some credit, I already did, I can't nomore.. Son of a b1tch.. Fvck! Someone???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what about sexual guys who hook up with girls only when they feel like but they dont like to play the "game" too often?
 

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i would fall under amateur - wannabe - player and if i would to create my own i would be a lame ass.
 
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COD, nice summation!! :up:
 
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