"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skeletons in the closet?

bud_2005

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If you found the girl that you want to marry, does she deserve to know all about your past, even if there are some skeletons in your closet?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And her knowing these things will help your relationship going forward in what way?
 

penkitten

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she has her own skeletons in her closet. trust me when i tell you that things do not stay buried in there forever and eventually come out on their own. can't you explain things then?
 

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bud_2005 said:
If you found the girl that you want to marry, does she deserve to know all about your past, even if there are some skeletons in your closet?
What sort of skeletons are we talking here? I think it depends on the situation and whether the likelyhood those skeletons would come out.

Beside's when it comes to women and the amount of skeletons in their closets, lets just say you won't even come close.
 
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