Size insult & ex issues, please give your opinion.

[Gamisch]

One of the best things about sosuave is fellow members are sometimes like a mirror. Standing from the side though, you'll see the biggest picture. You gotta be(come) mentally stronger, a little more resilient.

Cant blame you for living together. I've been there myself several times . Now I rather have my own place ,but that's personal. I guess you are learning that lesson now.. Remember women gotta EARN such a privilege.

And why are you so worried about D size when you also say " I'm good"? You could just laugh it away ,brush it off your shoulder. Always ASSUME she has seen a bigger D, has had a ex prettier than you, a richer one, a few orbiters ect. Just like you have seen different t1ts sizes, different butts ect . It gives you a realistic view and eases your mind.

I can already tell you are walking on eggshells while living together with her. Toxic mix . You gotta ease the F up bruh. Your insecurities will only push her away.

Read this sentence ten times :She's not yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy your time with her for as long as it lasts.

And then read this article;https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joke

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Women always go for guys egos when they’re hurt somehow, it’s a low blow, and they know it. Chances are any sexually active women today has had someone bigger, so what?

Size after being at least average is truly irrelevant. I’m in the “borderline omg” zone and I can make a chick scream my name with just the first “ or two. If you know what you’re doing your size is almost irrelevant unless she is cavernous or a size queen.

I was seeing a gal that in the middle of a separation and it was super casual and we talked about all kinds of crazy sex related stuff. She said her STBX was massive, and remarked she was blown away at how much better sex was with me, she always had me in her mouth too. She was multiple, squirting it was ridickulous. This has happened a few times with different lays.

Don’t let the size thing bug you, it’s bs.

 

[Gamisch]

At first, thanks everyone for you time and input guys.

@CBear I don't know how it sounds from a 3rd point of view, couldn't it be a sign of genuine desire not making me wait for sex?
Also she said she liked me for a long time before we met, it's not like I was the first guy she run into. But maybe I am rationalizing this and trying to see this from a point of view that's in my favor. I don't know...
If she broke up with me and jumped on some other dude 2 weeks later, of course I wouldn't like it, but would not care that much, after all, I can do nothing about something like that.

@pipeman84
Brother I said no red flags as far as I can see. I didn't see a red flag before you pointed those out.
I don't know If I am LTR material, maybe not.
I believe I treat her well and that I am, but then again I think about ****ing another chick just to feel good, so maybe I am not.

OP you are full of contradictions...now you say you don't care about her leaving as you " cant do nothing about it anyway". But you can do something about your D size?...Exactly!

And ofcourse you have one ites. You are jealous on top of that , and unstable . How would you feel when she F another dude because there are some struggles between you two?

I think she tries to poke in your insecurities.

I had one woman doing this to me. Flirting with other guys in front of me, made comments about my height, withdrew sex... She tried to hurt my ego to gain power over me.
When I broke up with her, she told me, my ego was too big for her too handle, which made her crazy.
Horrible situation to be in when you're invested and don't know what's going on.
I needed some time to recover from this breakup and get myself back together.

But also a valuable life lesson I assume. Be careful who you invest in. Next lesson is leave when you gotta leave. I ve learned this the hard way. You did the right thing by breaking up.

Ofcourse she will poke your insecurities (aka test you). It's a woman and they see each other almost 24/7. She is also 25 , and apparently been with one guy since she was 18. OP is stupid if he thinks she will just erase her ex from her memory like that, while he played a major part in her adult life.

 

[Nika]

OP you are full of contradictions...now you say you don't care about her leaving as you " cant do nothing about it anyway". But you can do something about your D size?...Exactly!

And ofcourse you have one ites. You are jealous on top of that , and unstable . How would you feel when she F another dude because there are some struggles between you two?

Ofcourse she will poke your insecurities (aka test you). It's a woman and they see each other almost 24/7. She is also 25 , and apparently been with one guy since she was 18. OP is stupid if he thinks she will just erase her ex from her memory like that, while he played a major part in her adult life.

Man English is not my native language and maybe I am not saying correctly what I want.
But, at first, of course I don't care if she leaves, it would hurt but I don't have any stupid notion in my head that she is the only one etc. I ll find someone else, or spin plates if that happens.
And no, I don't have any control about my **** size, but who really likes or is ok with his girlfriend commenting it in a bad way?
Imagine if I said to her, ok satisfying **** but I had better ones. No matter how secure you are, how can it be ok?

And I don't get it, I have oneitis because I don't like that after a year with me there is this ex situation?
And of course I wouldn't like if she ****ed some other dude, who in his right mind, would?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Man English is not my native language and maybe I am not saying correctly what I want.
But, at first, of course I don't care if she leaves, it would hurt but I don't have any stupid notion in my head that she is the only one etc. I ll find someone else, or spin plates if that happens.
And no, I don't have any control about my **** size, but who really likes or is ok with his girlfriend commenting it in a bad way?
Imagine if I said to her, ok satisfying **** but I had better ones. No matter how secure you are, how can it be ok?

And I don't get it, I have oneitis because I don't like that after a year with me there is this ex situation?
And of course I wouldn't like if she ****ed some other dude, who in his right mind, would?

It became OK when you allowed it to happen the first time and did nothing. Inaction gives silent approval.

 

[Gamisch]

Man English is not my native language and maybe I am not saying correctly what I want.
But, at first, of course I don't care if she leaves, it would hurt but I don't have any stupid notion in my head that she is the only one etc. I ll find someone else, or spin plates if that happens.
And no, I don't have any control about my **** size, but who really likes or is ok with his girlfriend commenting it in a bad way?
Imagine if I said to her, ok satisfying **** but I had better ones. No matter how secure you are, how can it be ok?

And I don't get it, I have oneitis because I don't like that after a year with me there is this ex situation?
And of course I wouldn't like if she ****ed some other dude, who in his right mind, would?

I don't know many men here agree with you so I geuss it was some kinda disrespectful thing , I just dont see it . Jokes like that dont hurt me tbh. I brush it off and show her I am always sharper and more witty than she is. No need to make war over a joke.

And yeah, maybe you should crack a joke back here and there like the post above me described in detail...lighten up bruh...

Next time when she say that you say