What is up with all the flirty girls. The ones who can drive you nuts, but in the end, all they are is flirts. Whats the best way to deal with them? Why do they do what they do? Is it possible to get into a healthy relationship with one of them? Should you try and uncover the "real" girl underneath all of the flirting? and finally.... How do you know if she is really interested in you as opposed to just flirting with you like every1 else?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Size dont matter
- Thread starter gymshorts
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
IceCream
Don Juan
If she says "yes" to you on dates that you schedule with her. If she starts to focus on YOU more than anyone else, after your dates, and well... maybe even before (if her interest levels are high towards you).
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
yea its a hard line to walk, i found in the end of the day they always use you as target practice. Best way is to walk away or flrt back, but dont get into a relationship with them cause they will probably end up cheating on u.
yes.Do they have problems and constantly need attention
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I flirt all the time. It's just "playing the field". No big deal.
Spin it back on them...
and where the hell did your Topic come from..."Size don't matter"????
Spin it back on them...
and where the hell did your Topic come from..."Size don't matter"????
yeah, man your title to this is way off topic. But, size does matter, you can't say that. There is too big like the size of a thumb, and there is also too big like a cobra. Women can't stand either one. They like normal size like around 5 to 9 inches i would say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You people need to cut that sh*t out. Ahora!gymshorts said:the title is just an attention grabber
Your moms ahora.oakraiderz2 said:You people need to cut that sh*t out. Ahora!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
hahahaha
a-wh*re-a
Get it?
But, ahora =ah-or-ah=now in spanish lol
But yes, please appropriately name your threads. It helps in the long run.
a-wh*re-a
Get it?
But, ahora =ah-or-ah=now in spanish lol
But yes, please appropriately name your threads. It helps in the long run.
PleasureKing
Don Juan
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flirt back. you will be helping yourself too, so heck, you might as well learn and get more experience!
Ok dude i can tell your a virgin and thats cool. these are the signs she is interested.
1. Ask her out if she says yes she is interested.
2. Go to kiss her if she kisses you back she is interested.
3. If u pull **** out and she sucks she is interested.
4. if you fvck ***** she is interested.
Good luck in losing your virginity.
1. Ask her out if she says yes she is interested.
2. Go to kiss her if she kisses you back she is interested.
3. If u pull **** out and she sucks she is interested.
4. if you fvck ***** she is interested.
Good luck in losing your virginity.
read her body language. girls in high school have very exagerated bodylanguage.. if you dont knwo how to read it... look in the bible or run a search in the tips section... and if you think she likes you she probly likes you.gymshorts said:What is up with all the flirty girls. The ones who can drive you nuts, but in the end, all they are is flirts. Whats the best way to deal with them? Why do they do what they do? Is it possible to get into a healthy relationship with one of them? Should you try and uncover the "real" girl underneath all of the flirting? and finally.... How do you know if she is really interested in you as opposed to just flirting with you like every1 else?
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
yea anyway girls can only feel 5 inches by the way, so if u got a niner its only for show, the performance is no difference, haha.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I had the same problems with one of my friends at school... I kept thinking I needed to find the "girl underneath". dude u just gotta let that go. I find that girls like that flirt a lot but what they really want is a guy to initiate ****. and if that doesnt work just give it up and stop wasting ur time... although I have it pretty good at school. she loves flirting all the time and I love it when she tries to see me jump in english class when she rubs the inside of my leg when im trying to work. BUT DONT EXPECT NETHING MORE THAN FLIRTING.