What is up with all the flirty girls. The ones who can drive you nuts, but in the end, all they are is flirts. Whats the best way to deal with them? Why do they do what they do? Is it possible to get into a healthy relationship with one of them? Should you try and uncover the "real" girl underneath all of the flirting? and finally.... How do you know if she is really interested in you as opposed to just flirting with you like every1 else?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Size dont matter
- Thread starter gymshorts
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
IceCream
Don Juan
If she says "yes" to you on dates that you schedule with her. If she starts to focus on YOU more than anyone else, after your dates, and well... maybe even before (if her interest levels are high towards you).
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
yea its a hard line to walk, i found in the end of the day they always use you as target practice. Best way is to walk away or flrt back, but dont get into a relationship with them cause they will probably end up cheating on u.
yes.Do they have problems and constantly need attention
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I flirt all the time. It's just "playing the field". No big deal.
Spin it back on them...
and where the hell did your Topic come from..."Size don't matter"????
Spin it back on them...
and where the hell did your Topic come from..."Size don't matter"????
yeah, man your title to this is way off topic. But, size does matter, you can't say that. There is too big like the size of a thumb, and there is also too big like a cobra. Women can't stand either one. They like normal size like around 5 to 9 inches i would say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You people need to cut that sh*t out. Ahora!gymshorts said:the title is just an attention grabber
Your moms ahora.oakraiderz2 said:You people need to cut that sh*t out. Ahora!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
hahahaha
a-wh*re-a
Get it?
But, ahora =ah-or-ah=now in spanish lol
But yes, please appropriately name your threads. It helps in the long run.
a-wh*re-a
Get it?
But, ahora =ah-or-ah=now in spanish lol
But yes, please appropriately name your threads. It helps in the long run.
PleasureKing
Don Juan
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flirt back. you will be helping yourself too, so heck, you might as well learn and get more experience!
Ok dude i can tell your a virgin and thats cool. these are the signs she is interested.
1. Ask her out if she says yes she is interested.
2. Go to kiss her if she kisses you back she is interested.
3. If u pull **** out and she sucks she is interested.
4. if you fvck ***** she is interested.
Good luck in losing your virginity.
1. Ask her out if she says yes she is interested.
2. Go to kiss her if she kisses you back she is interested.
3. If u pull **** out and she sucks she is interested.
4. if you fvck ***** she is interested.
Good luck in losing your virginity.
read her body language. girls in high school have very exagerated bodylanguage.. if you dont knwo how to read it... look in the bible or run a search in the tips section... and if you think she likes you she probly likes you.gymshorts said:What is up with all the flirty girls. The ones who can drive you nuts, but in the end, all they are is flirts. Whats the best way to deal with them? Why do they do what they do? Is it possible to get into a healthy relationship with one of them? Should you try and uncover the "real" girl underneath all of the flirting? and finally.... How do you know if she is really interested in you as opposed to just flirting with you like every1 else?
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
yea anyway girls can only feel 5 inches by the way, so if u got a niner its only for show, the performance is no difference, haha.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I had the same problems with one of my friends at school... I kept thinking I needed to find the "girl underneath". dude u just gotta let that go. I find that girls like that flirt a lot but what they really want is a guy to initiate ****. and if that doesnt work just give it up and stop wasting ur time... although I have it pretty good at school. she loves flirting all the time and I love it when she tries to see me jump in english class when she rubs the inside of my leg when im trying to work. BUT DONT EXPECT NETHING MORE THAN FLIRTING.