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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wats up everybody.just wanted to say i am new to this site,Its pretty cool. I am a mission to be good with the ladies,and the first thing i said to myself is i need to get in shape and have a goal to get fit and get my six pack. I hit the gym about 3 times a week. I do 30 min of running and i work on my chest,legs and back, for an hour and then go home and i havent seen no decrease in fat around my stomach, ive been doing this for 2 months. I just need your advice on getting a six pack.By the way i am 5'9, 170 pounds.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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5'9 170lbs means you probably have a decent enough layer of muscle under that fat so here is your answer:

*Join a muay thai gym in your area and attend every session (min 4 times week)
*Cut out junk foods and limit alcoholic drinks.

If you do those two you will have a 6 pack in 6 months or less.
 

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hey chillisauce

hey whats a muay thai and when people say junk food do you mean burgers,pizza, candy and sodas.
 

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you got it, eating healthily is a hell of a lot more complicated than that but just by removing all takeaway food + chips + anything processed (most things at a 7 11) + sodas + Macdonalds kind of places you will really help yourself out.

Muay thai is a kickboxing with elbows and knees which focus's on high intensity cardio pad work and a lot of ab work. Google it with your town name and you will probably have a gym there. If not try boxing, mma, kickboxing, or bjj.
 

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Everyone feel free to post

Everyone feel free to post anything regarding the subject.Ill read it when i wake up,im going to sleep right now 3:25am.

Thanks I Apprecated.;)
 

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It takes a lot of consistency and time before you can build a great body. When losing fat, don't look at the stomach, but look at your face, shoulders, legs, arms and other places on your body...those are the places you lose fat first, not the stomach.

How is your diet looking? Do you have a plan?...Or are you just winging it?
 

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soljier247: Dont go for the sixpack now... ull only get thin with sixpack no point in that... what u gotta do is workout youre whole body eat eggs , tuna like mad man:) basiclly eat MUCH workout with weights at youre gym... trust me after a while with that u like youre body much more... and its easy to get a sixpack then. and u want just get thin with sixpack but muscular with sixpack;)
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-tallionStallion diet plan

I really dont have a diet plan, all i know is i need to eat right, and belief in eating right would be eat my vegies,meats,fish,protein shakes and drinking a
lot of water,and staying away from fast food and minor snacks,thats the only
diet plan i know of.But if someone on this site can help my out with one,that will be cool,by the way Davezz thanks for the tip.:up:
 

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Just do it easy;) eat MUCH chicken,tuna,eggs, meat, and vegetables. would be a good idea buy whey protein shake to:) ull be buff in no time:D
 

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I disagree with some of the posts and the provided links.

You can take other people's advice but keep in mind that the advice they give is something they "theorize" that works or something they currently do but it may not work for you. Definitely try it and then try another exercise formula.
 

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Alright...well there is this diet on this board that is good and simple. I've followed it for a long time now

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782

Follow that diet plan and shaunk's links above. I can not tell how fast you will have the six-pack, nor when. hopefully by using the carb cutoff that's already built into that diet, you can maintain or shed some fat while building muscle. Good luck, and if you want more help....make a journal! :D
 

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Plain and simple you need a low body fat percentage.

Abs arent made in the gym, they're made in the kitchen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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