"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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six pack abs how do you get them?

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Wats up everybody.just wanted to say i am new to this site,Its pretty cool. I am a mission to be good with the ladies,and the first thing i said to myself is i need to get in shape and have a goal to get fit and get my six pack. I hit the gym about 3 times a week. I do 30 min of running and i work on my chest,legs and back, for an hour and then go home and i havent seen no decrease in fat around my stomach, ive been doing this for 2 months. I just need your advice on getting a six pack.By the way i am 5'9, 170 pounds.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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5'9 170lbs means you probably have a decent enough layer of muscle under that fat so here is your answer:

*Join a muay thai gym in your area and attend every session (min 4 times week)
*Cut out junk foods and limit alcoholic drinks.

If you do those two you will have a 6 pack in 6 months or less.
 

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hey chillisauce

hey whats a muay thai and when people say junk food do you mean burgers,pizza, candy and sodas.
 

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you got it, eating healthily is a hell of a lot more complicated than that but just by removing all takeaway food + chips + anything processed (most things at a 7 11) + sodas + Macdonalds kind of places you will really help yourself out.

Muay thai is a kickboxing with elbows and knees which focus's on high intensity cardio pad work and a lot of ab work. Google it with your town name and you will probably have a gym there. If not try boxing, mma, kickboxing, or bjj.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone feel free to post

Everyone feel free to post anything regarding the subject.Ill read it when i wake up,im going to sleep right now 3:25am.

Thanks I Apprecated.;)
 

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It takes a lot of consistency and time before you can build a great body. When losing fat, don't look at the stomach, but look at your face, shoulders, legs, arms and other places on your body...those are the places you lose fat first, not the stomach.

How is your diet looking? Do you have a plan?...Or are you just winging it?
 

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soljier247: Dont go for the sixpack now... ull only get thin with sixpack no point in that... what u gotta do is workout youre whole body eat eggs , tuna like mad man:) basiclly eat MUCH workout with weights at youre gym... trust me after a while with that u like youre body much more... and its easy to get a sixpack then. and u want just get thin with sixpack but muscular with sixpack;)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I-tallionStallion diet plan

I really dont have a diet plan, all i know is i need to eat right, and belief in eating right would be eat my vegies,meats,fish,protein shakes and drinking a
lot of water,and staying away from fast food and minor snacks,thats the only
diet plan i know of.But if someone on this site can help my out with one,that will be cool,by the way Davezz thanks for the tip.:up:
 

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Just do it easy;) eat MUCH chicken,tuna,eggs, meat, and vegetables. would be a good idea buy whey protein shake to:) ull be buff in no time:D
 

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I disagree with some of the posts and the provided links.

You can take other people's advice but keep in mind that the advice they give is something they "theorize" that works or something they currently do but it may not work for you. Definitely try it and then try another exercise formula.
 

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Alright...well there is this diet on this board that is good and simple. I've followed it for a long time now

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782

Follow that diet plan and shaunk's links above. I can not tell how fast you will have the six-pack, nor when. hopefully by using the carb cutoff that's already built into that diet, you can maintain or shed some fat while building muscle. Good luck, and if you want more help....make a journal! :D
 

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Plain and simple you need a low body fat percentage.

Abs arent made in the gym, they're made in the kitchen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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