"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Six Months in a Relationship

speed dawg

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I don't see the problem here.

Sounds like you're doing exactly what you need to be doing. We all know you like her at least a little, or you wouldn't still be hanging out with her at all. Keep it up. Start doing your homework (closet skeletons, fertility issues, crazy parents, psychopath, freaky about little rat dogs, etc. etc. etc.).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Die Hard said:
Zekko, the subject of my post was not 'Desdinova's situation'. The subject of my post was 'Iqqi and the things she subtly implied in her post'.

So the reflections I wrote about Desdinova's situation were not meant as a personal comment on his situation, they were meant to support my comment on Iqqi and the things she subtly implied in her post. You read those reflections totally out of context.
Great job mind fvcking yourself, buddy. Do this all the time with women or life in general, and you are sure to have great success. :rolleyes:

Zekko seems to have understood it, probably because I didn't imply anything, I just simply SAID what I MEANT.

If Des is happy with the girl, but she wants more, then she is the one who would walk away because HE could not give HER what she wants. He is getting what he wants, he is satisfied. SHE is NOT.

Get it? :)

:rolleyes:

Anyways, the post was meant for Des, but I don't know if he considered what I said.
 

Stagger Lee

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I see after all these years iqqi is still here providing her misinformation and disharmony.
 

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speed dawg said:
Start doing your homework (closet skeletons, fertility issues, crazy parents, psychopath, freaky about little rat dogs, etc. etc. etc.).
The only thing that I've really found that sets off an alarm is that she apparently has a chunk of debt, but since I don't plan on ever living with another woman, it's irrelevant. Her parents are cool (and still together) and her siblings are cool too. She's a little on the needy side, but I always liked my women a tad needy since it keeps them nicely attached.

My only real beef is that she's not higher on the looks scale. She's not homely, but I've dated better looking women. She's the only one that was worth keeping around out of the herd of women I dated last winter. After my screwball marriage ended, I dated women who were fairly fvcked up, so dating someone who's on the level has been a breath of fresh air.

But... if another more attractive woman takes an interest in me, I can't say that I'll be turning her down.
 
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