“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Six Months in a Relationship

speed dawg

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I don't see the problem here.

Sounds like you're doing exactly what you need to be doing. We all know you like her at least a little, or you wouldn't still be hanging out with her at all. Keep it up. Start doing your homework (closet skeletons, fertility issues, crazy parents, psychopath, freaky about little rat dogs, etc. etc. etc.).
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Die Hard said:
Zekko, the subject of my post was not 'Desdinova's situation'. The subject of my post was 'Iqqi and the things she subtly implied in her post'.

So the reflections I wrote about Desdinova's situation were not meant as a personal comment on his situation, they were meant to support my comment on Iqqi and the things she subtly implied in her post. You read those reflections totally out of context.
Great job mind fvcking yourself, buddy. Do this all the time with women or life in general, and you are sure to have great success. :rolleyes:

Zekko seems to have understood it, probably because I didn't imply anything, I just simply SAID what I MEANT.

If Des is happy with the girl, but she wants more, then she is the one who would walk away because HE could not give HER what she wants. He is getting what he wants, he is satisfied. SHE is NOT.

Get it? :)

:rolleyes:

Anyways, the post was meant for Des, but I don't know if he considered what I said.
 

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I see after all these years iqqi is still here providing her misinformation and disharmony.
 

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speed dawg said:
Start doing your homework (closet skeletons, fertility issues, crazy parents, psychopath, freaky about little rat dogs, etc. etc. etc.).
The only thing that I've really found that sets off an alarm is that she apparently has a chunk of debt, but since I don't plan on ever living with another woman, it's irrelevant. Her parents are cool (and still together) and her siblings are cool too. She's a little on the needy side, but I always liked my women a tad needy since it keeps them nicely attached.

My only real beef is that she's not higher on the looks scale. She's not homely, but I've dated better looking women. She's the only one that was worth keeping around out of the herd of women I dated last winter. After my screwball marriage ended, I dated women who were fairly fvcked up, so dating someone who's on the level has been a breath of fresh air.

But... if another more attractive woman takes an interest in me, I can't say that I'll be turning her down.
 
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