This would be my first time posting, on these boards and have a situation that I’m trying to figure out now that I have come to a state of mind that’s able to function properly around others the way I want to.(genuine)
I would first like to say it is quite a relief to feel that I am in control and no longer intimidated or focused on others people’s doings rather then my own, which has actually attracted quite a few people, noticing that my desires are no longer desperate or needy. It as if I’m walking around with a girlfriend, creating a nice aura around myself.
Since then I have been trying to define my style, appearance and attuide the (modern Renaissance man). threw studying bio's and continually reading books on seduction, some of my favorites which are the art of seduction and a bio on Gabriele D'Annuzio but always checking on the boards for any breakthroughs.
If anybody’s wondering how I have achieved such peace in myself it is solely based on my own personal mental health, tapping into my subconscious and confronting my personal issues to determine how they have affected my everyday thinking and actions, I believe the mind has the power to heal all.
Now the sitituation I’m dealt with is as follows:
I commute 2 hrs to my job everyday from train to subway leaving interaction with others very open,
But when I was on the subway as an intimidated fool, I would see this woman. That I would have really liked to approach and of course couldn't at the time. We had noticed each others presence over the past few months but unable to approach or even know what to say, funny enough we actually work in the same building different company. And see each other in the caf from time to time.
But I feel know I have really over stepped the 3s rule and wouldn't even know where to begin if I was to approach her now. Thinking that maybe since I wasn't able to approach her I may have scared her off a little as an unconfident man. I have heard her talking with others so I know we are pre qualified with some of the similar beliefs. And would easllilly qualify to my needs.
Is there any hope that would be able to approach her, without seeming... well to funny due to the fact I should have approached her months ago? And every time I don't say something I still feel like a fool and regret it. What kind of advice can you give about my situation? Techniques, methods. Openeners?
I would first like to say it is quite a relief to feel that I am in control and no longer intimidated or focused on others people’s doings rather then my own, which has actually attracted quite a few people, noticing that my desires are no longer desperate or needy. It as if I’m walking around with a girlfriend, creating a nice aura around myself.
Since then I have been trying to define my style, appearance and attuide the (modern Renaissance man). threw studying bio's and continually reading books on seduction, some of my favorites which are the art of seduction and a bio on Gabriele D'Annuzio but always checking on the boards for any breakthroughs.
If anybody’s wondering how I have achieved such peace in myself it is solely based on my own personal mental health, tapping into my subconscious and confronting my personal issues to determine how they have affected my everyday thinking and actions, I believe the mind has the power to heal all.
Now the sitituation I’m dealt with is as follows:
I commute 2 hrs to my job everyday from train to subway leaving interaction with others very open,
But when I was on the subway as an intimidated fool, I would see this woman. That I would have really liked to approach and of course couldn't at the time. We had noticed each others presence over the past few months but unable to approach or even know what to say, funny enough we actually work in the same building different company. And see each other in the caf from time to time.
But I feel know I have really over stepped the 3s rule and wouldn't even know where to begin if I was to approach her now. Thinking that maybe since I wasn't able to approach her I may have scared her off a little as an unconfident man. I have heard her talking with others so I know we are pre qualified with some of the similar beliefs. And would easllilly qualify to my needs.
Is there any hope that would be able to approach her, without seeming... well to funny due to the fact I should have approached her months ago? And every time I don't say something I still feel like a fool and regret it. What kind of advice can you give about my situation? Techniques, methods. Openeners?