"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Singleton 'shoots her shot' with a stranger on plane by asking if he's interested

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How would she give the note to the guy?

- If she gave it to the flight attendant, how would the guy know what she looked before he introduced himself?
- If she threw it over his seat, the guy still would have to know what she looked like.

You wouldn't turn around right away and introduce yourself unless you were sure what she looked like. And you wouldn't do it after 15 minutes because that would be awkward.

So a guy doesn't know what you look like, turns around, and introduces himself from a note. No way in hell he is doing that unless he knew what you looked like.

"Text me sometime"? You can't text on the plane, there is no wifi, so you have to text off the plane. Once you are off the plane, what are you going to do; text her: "Yes I'm interested, let's meet at Gate C and have a coffee." Assuming she has no ride waiting for her and he has no ride waiting for her.

Weak story.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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