"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Magnatolia

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Hey guys,

I know this isn't technically a pickup question, but I'm looking for your experiences in the conversation side of things.

I don't have the confidence or ability to 'pickup' girls at a bar/nightclub, but these events are a totally different situation.

How do you get yourself into a confident mindset so that you can simply walk up to a girl, smile, introduce yourself and take it from there?

My biggest hurdle is the initial approach. Once the conversation has picked up the pace I'm fine, I can work with what they've said etc. I have no problem keeping the majority of the convo on them, etc.

Any advice is appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AKA FLEX

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Mr Autobahn said:
Approach the girl right away! Before your mind starts playing games with itself...

RIGHT AWAY!
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Agreed. Also, practice makes perfect. It might be awkward the first several times, but the more you do it, the more "second nature" it will become.
 
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