"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys,

I know this isn't technically a pickup question, but I'm looking for your experiences in the conversation side of things.

I don't have the confidence or ability to 'pickup' girls at a bar/nightclub, but these events are a totally different situation.

How do you get yourself into a confident mindset so that you can simply walk up to a girl, smile, introduce yourself and take it from there?

My biggest hurdle is the initial approach. Once the conversation has picked up the pace I'm fine, I can work with what they've said etc. I have no problem keeping the majority of the convo on them, etc.

Any advice is appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr Autobahn said:
Approach the girl right away! Before your mind starts playing games with itself...

RIGHT AWAY!
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Agreed. Also, practice makes perfect. It might be awkward the first several times, but the more you do it, the more "second nature" it will become.
 
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