"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Singles events?

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Magnatolia

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Hey guys,

I know this isn't technically a pickup question, but I'm looking for your experiences in the conversation side of things.

I don't have the confidence or ability to 'pickup' girls at a bar/nightclub, but these events are a totally different situation.

How do you get yourself into a confident mindset so that you can simply walk up to a girl, smile, introduce yourself and take it from there?

My biggest hurdle is the initial approach. Once the conversation has picked up the pace I'm fine, I can work with what they've said etc. I have no problem keeping the majority of the convo on them, etc.

Any advice is appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr Autobahn said:
Approach the girl right away! Before your mind starts playing games with itself...

RIGHT AWAY!
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Agreed. Also, practice makes perfect. It might be awkward the first several times, but the more you do it, the more "second nature" it will become.
 
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