"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Single, without a facebook. And quick question!

aznxboi

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Hey fellas,

In class most girls I meet think I have a girlfriend. But I don’t, and I haven’t found a way where I can ask them to introduce me to their girl friend. I know every girl have atleast one cute girl friend.

Also, I don’t have a facebook. I didn’t make one because I don’t want people to research me. But, will this put me in a disadvantage when it comes to meeting new people and especially girls in general?

Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Irs88

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Dont worry that you don't have a facebook. That has nothing to do with you getting girls.(maybe social status, but that itself is farfetched). Lots of people don't have facebook anyways because they don't want facebook to sell their personal information. No biggie.

Just approach more girls. Eventually, with pooks book, this site, and your gaining experience, getting a gf will only be in a matter of time.
 

aznxboi

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That is true. I am really involved around my school, wouldn't it put me in a disadvantage if I don't have a facebook though? How can I keep in contact with them otherwise.
 

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There is something called a phone. I have facebook with about 100 close friends on it and i only visit it 2-3 times a month. When i want to msg some people i usually write on wall to 10+ different friends and check back in a week or two. IMO people who are on facebook 2-3 times a day and change their status 4-5 times a week need to get a life. Besides if i really want to talk to someone i text them or call them...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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trickz

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Facebooks great, only your friends can view your profile and you can delete anything that might damage your reputation.

Ive used it to close alot of foreign girls who didn't have a mobile phone yet.

Also ive found girls who i either didn't get a chance to number close or just lost them in the club actually add me on facebook a couple days later.
 
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