"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Single, without a facebook. And quick question!

aznxboi

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Hey fellas,

In class most girls I meet think I have a girlfriend. But I don’t, and I haven’t found a way where I can ask them to introduce me to their girl friend. I know every girl have atleast one cute girl friend.

Also, I don’t have a facebook. I didn’t make one because I don’t want people to research me. But, will this put me in a disadvantage when it comes to meeting new people and especially girls in general?

Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Irs88

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Dont worry that you don't have a facebook. That has nothing to do with you getting girls.(maybe social status, but that itself is farfetched). Lots of people don't have facebook anyways because they don't want facebook to sell their personal information. No biggie.

Just approach more girls. Eventually, with pooks book, this site, and your gaining experience, getting a gf will only be in a matter of time.
 

aznxboi

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That is true. I am really involved around my school, wouldn't it put me in a disadvantage if I don't have a facebook though? How can I keep in contact with them otherwise.
 

Prodigy746

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There is something called a phone. I have facebook with about 100 close friends on it and i only visit it 2-3 times a month. When i want to msg some people i usually write on wall to 10+ different friends and check back in a week or two. IMO people who are on facebook 2-3 times a day and change their status 4-5 times a week need to get a life. Besides if i really want to talk to someone i text them or call them...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trickz

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Facebooks great, only your friends can view your profile and you can delete anything that might damage your reputation.

Ive used it to close alot of foreign girls who didn't have a mobile phone yet.

Also ive found girls who i either didn't get a chance to number close or just lost them in the club actually add me on facebook a couple days later.
 
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