single moms as plates?

[mister.ritenow]

I know this is cort of counterintuitive, but does anyone have a recommendation about single moms as plates?

Usually once I see that there is a child in the picture I run for the hills because I'd think that these women are looking for a Mr. Dad and at the least a LTR.

But some of these women are hot and I have to think they want some action too, maybe even more so because the baby is always c***-blocking them?

Any advice or anecdotes? Should I continue to skip these ones or just go for it?

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

The idea of plate spinning was for a dude in between relationships to be chasing several women at once. They were supposed to pick the one they liked the most, and if things didn't work out with one, they still had the others. The idea was made for dudes to boost their confidence and get better at chasing women.

It wasn't made for us to keep damaged women (single mothers, ex's, bar flys, etc) as our own personal fvck toys for an indefinite amount of time. Playing with fire with a woman like this isn't plate spinning, and isn't a good idea. DJ's are supposed to avoid the women who cause trouble and headaches, not continue seeing them.

You really need to be stay careful and avoid trouble like this.

 

[mister.ritenow]

The idea of plate spinning was for a dude in between relationships to be chasing several women at once. They were supposed to pick the one they liked the most, and if things didn't work out with one, they still had the others. The idea was made for dudes to boost their confidence and get better at chasing women.

It wasn't made for us to keep damaged women (single mothers, ex's, bar flys, etc) as our own personal fvck toys for an indefinite amount of time. Playing with fire with a woman like this isn't plate spinning, and isn't a good idea. DJ's are supposed to avoid the women who cause trouble and headaches, not continue seeing them.

You really need to be stay careful and avoid trouble like this.

Thanks for the insight, much appreciated. I'll stay away from single moms unless she's too hot to turn down haha.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Thanks for the insight, much appreciated. I'll stay away from single moms unless she's too hot to turn down haha.

I quit single moms a couple years ago and been extremely happy about, but g*d damit lately all I run into is hot mid 20s milfs. It's bullsh*t, ONS at their place and that's it. Nothing more.

 

[Trump]

I know this is cort of counterintuitive, but does anyone have a recommendation about single moms as plates?

Usually once I see that there is a child in the picture I run for the hills because I'd think that these women are looking for a Mr. Dad and at the least a LTR.

But some of these women are hot and I have to think they want some action too, maybe even more so because the baby is always c***-blocking them?

Any advice or anecdotes? Should I continue to skip these ones or just go for it?

Wrong question to ask here bro. We can't tell you what the point of a plate is, or whether a single mom is good as a plate or not.

The only thing we can tell you is protect yourself at all times, in case the single mom, or any girl, decides to create some trouble for you. :woo:

 

[cola]

Well all single moms arent damaged bro. Some are really good girls that got dealt a ****ty hand. Keyword some. Same as all women. I dont neccissarily look down on a chick with a kid

 

[mister.ritenow]

Well all single moms arent damaged bro. Some are really good girls that got dealt a ****ty hand. Keyword some. Same as all women. I dont neccissarily look down on a chick with a kid

Not worried about damage, just trying to weigh the chances that my efforts will be in vain because the group is far less likely to want something casual.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Not worried about damage, just trying to weigh the chances that my efforts will be in vain because the group is far less likely to want something casual.

They're ok having "sex partners". They just don't have a lot of time to waste. So they aren't going to be playing games and rather direct what their needs are. Be fair to them and their children and communicate your intentions.

 

[YawataNoKami]

When they(single mothers) hear a logical person say that they, as a single mom, are irresponsible, a single mom will immediately assume that a man is “unhappy” when he says he’s learned and is done dating single moms because of the debt, drama, and baggage they bring. A single mom will also immediately assume a guy is “immature” or a “man-boy” when he tells her that there is no way he’s interested in becoming a wallet for her kids by another man, dealing with said drama and exes and kids not his. What is laughable is that in reality someone who has sense enough not to date a single parent is the smartest human being on Earth. I’m far from an “unhappy, immature, man-boy”. Rather, my earnings are mine, my 401K and home are mine, my life and time are mine, and none of it is being wasted on a single mom and her brood.

We men are wise to the games that single moms play. We know most single moms look to we men as wallets and ATMs to finance their broods by the deadbeats, bad boys they chose in their youth to have kids with. More and more men are learning that single moms are only to be dated while it’s fun, and once the kids are introduced, the ex drama is exposed, the debt is revealed, the baggage is unpacked, a wise man will walk away from a single mother.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

When they(single mothers) hear a logical person say that they, as a single mom, are irresponsible, a single mom will immediately assume that a man is “unhappy” when he says he’s learned and is done dating single moms because of the debt, drama, and baggage they bring. A single mom will also immediately assume a guy is “immature” or a “man-boy” when he tells her that there is no way he’s interested in becoming a wallet for her kids by another man, dealing with said drama and exes and kids not his. What is laughable is that in reality someone who has sense enough not to date a single parent is the smartest human being on Earth. I’m far from an “unhappy, immature, man-boy”. Rather, my earnings are mine, my 401K and home are mine, my life and time are mine, and none of it is being wasted on a single mom and her brood.

We men are wise to the games that single moms play. We know most single moms look to we men as wallets and ATMs to finance their broods by the deadbeats, bad boys they chose in their youth to have kids with. More and more men are learning that single moms are only to be dated while it’s fun, and once the kids are introduced, the ex drama is exposed, the debt is revealed, the baggage is unpacked, a wise man will walk away from a single mother.

Non-single ladies already run this game. They will have the guy with the cash, and other men of zero means in the same circles as them that you are basically financing.

That's why sometimes it's best if you do have financial means to mess with people who also have them.

 

[Solomon]

No thanks to single mothers....

 

[alaki]

I know this is cort of counterintuitive, but does anyone have a recommendation about single moms as plates?

Usually once I see that there is a child in the picture I run for the hills because I'd think that these women are looking for a Mr. Dad and at the least a LTR.

But some of these women are hot and I have to think they want some action too, maybe even more so because the baby is always c***-blocking them?

Any advice or anecdotes? Should I continue to skip these ones or just go for it?

i tried it once,the sex is GOOOOD,but after that you have to be a daddy,or change your phone number /home adress etc etc(which i did)