Single Mommy: If you're going to be a stepdad, you will need to pay for some of their things

[MatureDJ]

 

[SW15]

I think it is common for stepfathers to pay for stuff for things for the mom's previous children.

It's probably more common than stepmothers paying for stuff for the dad's previous children.

This video isn't a major revelation. This happens in relationships where the partners have previous children. This even happens with 55+ partners with adult Millennial/Gen Z children too.

 

[Solomon]

If I'm dealing with a single mother it's casual dating or STR at best
I had SM try to tell me after choking on my balls to "take care of her son"
I blocked her number, noway are you going to manipulate me after sex to pay bills

 

[dk1990S111]

Got caught up with a single mom and definitely do not recommend it. Worst mistake of my life

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've dated a single mum or two(these were women with ONE child), and I purchased things for them, out of genuine affection and not a sense of obligation

If you're mindset is "I HAVE to do buy her kid things, in order to win favor from both and, ideally, a BJ from her...", you're going to be no less disappointed than the person who stays late at work for the sake of APPEARING to be a hard worker, rather than out of genuine zeal for whatever projects are in the works

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

One of my good friends got with a single mom. It worked out but she was a quiet woman, very sweet and calm. She never used it against him. He was a red-pill aware guy and he navigated it quite well. Is it ideal? No. But not every single person will be in some theoretically-ideal scenario.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've dated a single mum or two(these were women with ONE child), and I purchased things for them, out of genuine affection and not a sense of obligation

If you're mindset is "I HAVE to do buy her kid things, in order to win favor from both and, ideally, a BJ from her...", you're going to be no less disappointed than the person who stays late at work for the sake of APPEARING to be a hard worker, rather than out of genuine zeal for whatever projects are in the works

So you'd give the kid a gift, and you wouldn't get a blow-job for it?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Dated several, never had any of these expectations.

I get simps get targeted for a reason

 

[BaronOfHair]

So you'd give the kid a gift, and you wouldn't get a blow-job for it?

Never from the kid, nope. Some acts are similar to shoving a 90something year old parapalegic, wheelchair and all, into a vat of sulphuric acid, while he or she is both alive and conscious...

Entirely too depraved for even a sick f-ck like me to partake in

 

[MatureDJ]

Never from the kid, nope. Some acts are similar to shoving a 90something year old parapalegic, wheelchair and all, into a vat of sulphuric acid, while he or she is both alive and conscious...

Entirely too depraved for even a sick f-ck like me to partake in

I meant getting the blow-job from the mommy.

 

[Bible_Belt]

One of my good friends got with a single mom. It worked out but she was a quiet woman, very sweet and calm. She never used it against him. He was a red-pill aware guy and he navigated it quite well. Is it ideal? No. But not every single person will be in some theoretically-ideal scenario.

My neighbor is the same, only the genders are reversed. He knocked up a ghetto mama who ran off and left him with a toddler. I met them briefly, and it took me a minute to understand that the kid was his and not hers, because the two of them seemed so well bonded.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Every man who likes to dabble in single mom pvssy must remember three words: In Loco Parentis. No, that's not the name of a new Puerto Rican hip hop artist. It's a Latin phrase that means "in place of a parent". It essentially means that you can become financially responsible for a child if the he or she starts to regard you as a parent. You don't have to formally adopt the kid, marry the kid's mother or even live together with the said mother. If you spend enough time with a child and that child starts to think of you as "daddy", you are on the hook for child support if/when you break up with the kid's mother. So be careful playing daddy or you may actually become one, whether you want to or not.

 

[MatureDJ]

So be careful playing daddy or you may actually become one, whether you want to or not.

It's basically trading one's genetic legacy for access to poontang - what used to be 100% correlated.

 

[dk1990S111]

So be careful playing daddy or you may actually become one, whether you want to or not.

100%. At this time the law is set up to screw you for even thinking about trying to do something “good”.

One aspect of why I am glad things ended up not working out with my baby’s mom is that she has a son that was 8 when I came into his life now he’s 11. Already had issues at that time. She continues to screw him up to where me and her ex husband (also tried to be this kids father figure for years) agree that he could very well be a school shooter. If I married her or was even just with her, the things he starts to do as he gets older turn into my problems even though I saw the writing on the wall and tried to correct his behaviors but mom was never on my side. Feel bad for any guy that ends up dealing with the crap that kids gunna get into in the next few years.