“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Single men just don’t care about sex anymore, study says

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Yeah that’s the other thing. Some say 55 percentile guy might be able to get sex, but definitely not casually. He’d almost have to fake wanting a relationship with some HB4 or HB4.9. And then he’s kinda stuck with her for a while.

Relationships are good if it’s someone you’re attracted to, but nobody wants to feel “stuck” in a relationship with a “slump buster.”
A 55th percentile guy is dog shiit in today’s market. It was never good to be a 55th percentile guy. That guy usually isn’t getting casual sex from attractive women. This is the kind of guy who would only get sex in a relationship with an average to slightly cute woman (most men rating the woman 5-6 range). If he has to sink below the average category to find a relationship now because average looking women believe that they are entitled to top tier men, he’s not going to be excited about that. A relationship with an overweight, below average woman isn’t an enticing prospect.

What do you think of fit women, but with big muscles..Women with huge muscle, look more like a muscular Chad than a woman. That's a huge turnoff too.
How many women really look like that in your everyday life? I can think of a grand total of zero that I see at the gym I go to.
At my gym, there’s a trainer in her late 20s who is muscular yet still feminine looking and sounding. She trains and sometimes works the front desk.

Among the general gym goers at my gym, there are not a lot of muscular to overly muscular woman. That’s why the trainer mentioned in the last sentence stands out.

Most men would have to go out of their way to run into that type of woman regularly.

To me, at this age (mid-30's)... The act of having sex just isn't worth putting much effort into.

I'm not going to waste energy over some delusional wannabe princess, ya know?
If you want to have sex with a 32-39 year old woman, it’s easier if you’re a fit guy 18-24. Women in their 30s, especially mid to late 30s, have excessively high standards for men close to their own age who they deem to be boyfriend material. Most men in their 30s put up with delusional princess demands due to thirst, a lack of options, and blue pill cultural programming that men should date women close to their own ages.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah that’s the other thing. Some say 55 percentile guy might be able to get sex, but definitely not casually. He’d almost have to fake wanting a relationship with some HB4 or HB4.9. And then he’s kinda stuck with her for a while.

Relationships are good if it’s someone you’re attracted to, but nobody wants to feel “stuck” in a relationship with a “slump buster.”
If a 55th percentile guy lands a LTR with a 49th percentile gal in 2021 he's done well for himself. It's brutal out there.
 
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