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Single men just don’t care about sex anymore, study says

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Yeah that’s the other thing. Some say 55 percentile guy might be able to get sex, but definitely not casually. He’d almost have to fake wanting a relationship with some HB4 or HB4.9. And then he’s kinda stuck with her for a while.

Relationships are good if it’s someone you’re attracted to, but nobody wants to feel “stuck” in a relationship with a “slump buster.”
A 55th percentile guy is dog shiit in today’s market. It was never good to be a 55th percentile guy. That guy usually isn’t getting casual sex from attractive women. This is the kind of guy who would only get sex in a relationship with an average to slightly cute woman (most men rating the woman 5-6 range). If he has to sink below the average category to find a relationship now because average looking women believe that they are entitled to top tier men, he’s not going to be excited about that. A relationship with an overweight, below average woman isn’t an enticing prospect.

What do you think of fit women, but with big muscles..Women with huge muscle, look more like a muscular Chad than a woman. That's a huge turnoff too.
How many women really look like that in your everyday life? I can think of a grand total of zero that I see at the gym I go to.
At my gym, there’s a trainer in her late 20s who is muscular yet still feminine looking and sounding. She trains and sometimes works the front desk.

Among the general gym goers at my gym, there are not a lot of muscular to overly muscular woman. That’s why the trainer mentioned in the last sentence stands out.

Most men would have to go out of their way to run into that type of woman regularly.

To me, at this age (mid-30's)... The act of having sex just isn't worth putting much effort into.

I'm not going to waste energy over some delusional wannabe princess, ya know?
If you want to have sex with a 32-39 year old woman, it’s easier if you’re a fit guy 18-24. Women in their 30s, especially mid to late 30s, have excessively high standards for men close to their own age who they deem to be boyfriend material. Most men in their 30s put up with delusional princess demands due to thirst, a lack of options, and blue pill cultural programming that men should date women close to their own ages.
 

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Yeah that’s the other thing. Some say 55 percentile guy might be able to get sex, but definitely not casually. He’d almost have to fake wanting a relationship with some HB4 or HB4.9. And then he’s kinda stuck with her for a while.

Relationships are good if it’s someone you’re attracted to, but nobody wants to feel “stuck” in a relationship with a “slump buster.”
If a 55th percentile guy lands a LTR with a 49th percentile gal in 2021 he's done well for himself. It's brutal out there.
 
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