Single, Happy, but little to no sex

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When you're at peace with yourself, living well alone, but missing sex, what do you do?

After 30, especially at that stage, most women are busy, focused on having children.

Everyone wants LTR, so it's impossible to find one simply to maintain a relationship, each in their own home, no cohabitation, just fun and sex, with exclusivity.

In this case, how do you find such a woman?
 

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When you're at peace with yourself, living well alone, but missing sex, what do you do?

After 30, especially at that stage, most women are busy, focused on having children.

Everyone wants LTR, so it's impossible to find one simply to maintain a relationship, each in their own home, no cohabitation, just fun and sex, with exclusivity.

In this case, how do you find such a woman?
Go under 30

or focus on career girls or those who focus on traveling
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah bro...thats why men get girlfriends. And yet, you are also right about the fact that having a gf can be a headache.

It's like work. You can ask " how can I sustain a enjoyable life without working my azz off?". Well..its nearly impossible. You can be a criminal, what would be the equivalent of "breaking the laws of dating " and find a feck buddy.

The latter ( as being a criminal because you don't wanna work) isn't easy to achieve and ( just like crime) oftentimes only goes well for a short period of time...




I do a search for local venues & "erotic". :rolleyes:
Not allowed to say that...yet kinda strange as it's basically THE fastest way to find a solution...

Also because meanwhile more and more women offer such services.

But okay, we rather teach men how to actually seduce women, and I do agree it's way WAY better for your development as a boss/ king/ alpha.
 

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When you're at peace with yourself, living well alone, but missing sex, what do you do?

After 30, especially at that stage, most women are busy, focused on having children.

Everyone wants LTR, so it's impossible to find one simply to maintain a relationship, each in their own home, no cohabitation, just fun and sex, with exclusivity.

In this case, how do you find such a woman?
Go find women to fvck.

İt's really not that hard to figure out.
 

ThisIsSparta

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Go find women to fvck.

İt's really not that hard to figure out.
Well, they made a whole forum here to figure it out.


Go under 30

or focus on career girls or those who focus on traveling
Stick to the "career" women. Travel betches will expect you to travel with them or they will have another guy doing it and there goes the exclusivity.
 

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Direct cold approach.

p.s: The reason "everyone around you is looking for LTR" might be because you come off as beta provider guy, and not the one who they see as fun, exciting, mysterious, seductive, etc.
 

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When you're at peace with yourself, living well alone, but missing sex, what do you do?

After 30, especially at that stage, most women are busy, focused on having children.

Everyone wants LTR, so it's impossible to find one simply to maintain a relationship, each in their own home, no cohabitation, just fun and sex, with exclusivity.

In this case, how do you find such a woman?
Go to a hooker. Quite simple!
 

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Once you're married, there will be less sex. That's just a fact of life. You don't get married for more sex.

Fortunately, in 10 years, having sex with robots will be common. You get to choose one that perfectly fits your physical ideal and performs exactly the way you want.

So if you're a young guy, don't sweat no longer having sex after marriage. Hell, the sex might even be better.
 

Hamurabimbi

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Go under 30

or focus on career girls or those who focus on traveling
I've dated lots of <30 girls. They still want a relationship. I dated a 19 year old I met in Tinder. In our second date, After we had sfx, she told me she wanted a relationship. I reminded her her Tinder bio stated 'just looking for casual'. She replied 'I don't care what my bio says. I want a boyfriend!' Eventually she wore me down.
 

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