"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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single girls really want to be in relationships?

theNEWDJ

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I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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all girls want c@ck
 

theNEWDJ

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hahaha i know they r sooo horny but dont want a bad rep
 

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I think that what your saying is very true. However, just because a girl wants to be an a relationship, it doesnt neccessarily mean that she will want to be in one RIGHT NOW.

Sometimes she may be hurt from a previous relationship so she isn't willing to get into another one.

But over time even the hurt girls will want to get into a relationship. Just make yourself good enough for her to choose.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
Dont be so naive
 
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