"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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single girls really want to be in relationships?

theNEWDJ

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I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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all girls want c@ck
 

theNEWDJ

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hahaha i know they r sooo horny but dont want a bad rep
 

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I think that what your saying is very true. However, just because a girl wants to be an a relationship, it doesnt neccessarily mean that she will want to be in one RIGHT NOW.

Sometimes she may be hurt from a previous relationship so she isn't willing to get into another one.

But over time even the hurt girls will want to get into a relationship. Just make yourself good enough for her to choose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
Dont be so naive
 
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