"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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single girls really want to be in relationships?

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I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all girls want c@ck
 
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hahaha i know they r sooo horny but dont want a bad rep
 
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I think that what your saying is very true. However, just because a girl wants to be an a relationship, it doesnt neccessarily mean that she will want to be in one RIGHT NOW.

Sometimes she may be hurt from a previous relationship so she isn't willing to get into another one.

But over time even the hurt girls will want to get into a relationship. Just make yourself good enough for her to choose.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I have heard from people that if a girl is single she is probobly unhappy and decpite what she says she would rather be in a relationship... do u guys think this is true?

thank u
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Dont be so naive
 
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