"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Single girl who still has his ex in FB relationship status and posts pics with him: red flag?

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Fela Kuti

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Hello,

What do you think if there's a single girl you're interested in but who still has his ex in FB relationship status and has posted a few pics with/of him? We've went out on dates a couple of times and she said it's because she's tired of men approaching her online so she uses the status and pics as a shield against them. I just think something's not right with this reason. As I'm the kinda guy who doesn't wanna have anything to do with a girl who still has unfinished business with her ex, I'm feeling wary about pursuing further. What says you? A red flag? They broke up 3 months ago FYI. Oh and the guy is using their pic together as his messenger pic.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you hitting it? Who cares what she is doing if she is not in a committed relationship with you. If she is showing interest and you are having sex then go with it but don't get invested emotionally.
 
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For starters, you should always trust your gut. However, she's not your girl and your not her man... no one is committed to anyone. Just enjoy dating and see where it goes. If it progresses down the line then keep your eye on her.
 
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dustmuffin said:
Are you hitting it? Who cares what she is doing if she is not in a committed relationship with you. If she is showing interest and you are having sex then go with it but don't get invested emotionally.
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well no, but she likes me so that's a start.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fela Kuti said:
well no, but she likes me so that's a start.
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She could be using you for validation and stringing you along. Make your intent known. Make a move. If she rejects it you might try again...if you get no where move along...don't waste your time.
 
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You are overthinking this, and you are on a path to failure.. Why do you care if she might be seeing someone else, so the fvck what, you're not in a relationship. Just keep making dates and sleeping with her... OH BTW, you should NOT be just doing this with her... your problem is that you are focused on one girl. STOP THAT SH1T. Men should not worry about relationships, that's what chicks do. If you act like a chick, women will not be attracted to you because you are not acting like a man.
 
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RangerMIke said:
You are overthinking this, and you are on a path to failure.. Why do you care if she might be seeing someone else, so the fvck what, you're not in a relationship. Just keep making dates and sleeping with her... OH BTW, you should NOT be just doing this with her... your problem is that you are focused on one girl. STOP THAT SH1T. Men should not worry about relationships, that's what chicks do. If you act like a chick, women will not be attracted to you because you are not acting like a man.
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Well damm
 
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