"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Single girl who still has his ex in FB relationship status and posts pics with him: red flag?

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Hello,

What do you think if there's a single girl you're interested in but who still has his ex in FB relationship status and has posted a few pics with/of him? We've went out on dates a couple of times and she said it's because she's tired of men approaching her online so she uses the status and pics as a shield against them. I just think something's not right with this reason. As I'm the kinda guy who doesn't wanna have anything to do with a girl who still has unfinished business with her ex, I'm feeling wary about pursuing further. What says you? A red flag? They broke up 3 months ago FYI. Oh and the guy is using their pic together as his messenger pic.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are you hitting it? Who cares what she is doing if she is not in a committed relationship with you. If she is showing interest and you are having sex then go with it but don't get invested emotionally.
 
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For starters, you should always trust your gut. However, she's not your girl and your not her man... no one is committed to anyone. Just enjoy dating and see where it goes. If it progresses down the line then keep your eye on her.
 
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dustmuffin said:
Are you hitting it? Who cares what she is doing if she is not in a committed relationship with you. If she is showing interest and you are having sex then go with it but don't get invested emotionally.
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well no, but she likes me so that's a start.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fela Kuti said:
well no, but she likes me so that's a start.
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She could be using you for validation and stringing you along. Make your intent known. Make a move. If she rejects it you might try again...if you get no where move along...don't waste your time.
 
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You are overthinking this, and you are on a path to failure.. Why do you care if she might be seeing someone else, so the fvck what, you're not in a relationship. Just keep making dates and sleeping with her... OH BTW, you should NOT be just doing this with her... your problem is that you are focused on one girl. STOP THAT SH1T. Men should not worry about relationships, that's what chicks do. If you act like a chick, women will not be attracted to you because you are not acting like a man.
 
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RangerMIke said:
You are overthinking this, and you are on a path to failure.. Why do you care if she might be seeing someone else, so the fvck what, you're not in a relationship. Just keep making dates and sleeping with her... OH BTW, you should NOT be just doing this with her... your problem is that you are focused on one girl. STOP THAT SH1T. Men should not worry about relationships, that's what chicks do. If you act like a chick, women will not be attracted to you because you are not acting like a man.
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Well damm
 
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