KennyBoo
Don Juan
Me and my EX broke up over 3 years ago and she was pregnant for me. I stayed single for 3 years after the breakup so I can concentrate on spending time with my baby girl and working to pay my child support. I am ready to find romance again so I start haning out of the house more. I am not the type of guy who likes to mess with more than 1 girl at a time. I want to find a LTR. So I met this one girl and was getting to know her, next thing you know I met another and another, before I knew it I had 4 girls intersted in me at one time. Well this one girl really got my attention more than the others so I strayed away fromthe other 3 and started just hanging with her. We had a lot in common and hit it off really good from the start. She has an 18 month old Son and I have a 3 year old Daughter. We would go out on dates sometimes me and her and sometimes with our kids. She told me that she never met a guy like me and that she liked the fact that I wasn't just into her but showed her Son attention as well, all the other guys only wanted sex from her.
Now here is the problem.
The father of her child was no good. He lied and cheated on her, used her for sex. Didn't help her with his son as far as child support or being you know a Father to his child. So in November last year she decided she was gonna make a bright future for her and her Son. She joined the Army. She will be going to boot camp in June for 4 months and return to get her Son and move away from here with her Son. When I met her early March she told me about going to the Army and didn't really wanna get involved with anyone. But the more we hung out and talked we became attatched to eachother and really enjoyed eachothers company a lot. About 2 months into going on dates and hanging out we had a talk and I asked her about the situation. We both agreed that there would be no longdistance relationship. I suggested we should back off eachother cause it will only make it harder when she left but she didn't want this to end at all. I was really starting to fall for her, I enjoyed all the good times we had together, for once in a long time I was happy again and also didn't want it to end, but I knew that day would come, soon too. I never once tried to have sex with her cause I knew she was leaving and didn't wanna add extra heartache into this situation. My feelings for her was getting stronger and stronger and I couldn't help it. 2 weeks before she left I took her to Blue Bayou Water Park in Baton Rouge. We had the greatest time there. Time was getting short and here I was with this amazing girl that could definatly be LTR material only to know in my mind it was all about to end. The last 4 days before she left we spent it together. Friday I went to her house and hung out, Saturday she invited me to go to her "Going Away Party" at her Grandmother's house and meet her whole family. Sunday she invited me to a Dance Recital which was awesome I have never been to one, and Monday the last time we were together we just hung out at her house. Now she is gone, she left Tuesday @ 10:00 AM. I am missing her a lot. I don't plan on sitting here waiting for her to come back cause I don't know what she will do after her 4 years of the Army. But at the same time I have really fallen for this girl. I am ready for a LTR. She was saying that she might be stationed @ Fort Polk which is an hour or so away from here and would come down every other weekend to see her family and would contact me. Like I said I am not the type of guy to mess with more than one girl at a time. Should I stay away from other girls and just hope that she doesn't find someone else and would come down everyother weekend? I am confused I dunno what to do, what would some of you guys do in this situation?
Sorry for the long story but I just had to get it out.
Now here is the problem.
The father of her child was no good. He lied and cheated on her, used her for sex. Didn't help her with his son as far as child support or being you know a Father to his child. So in November last year she decided she was gonna make a bright future for her and her Son. She joined the Army. She will be going to boot camp in June for 4 months and return to get her Son and move away from here with her Son. When I met her early March she told me about going to the Army and didn't really wanna get involved with anyone. But the more we hung out and talked we became attatched to eachother and really enjoyed eachothers company a lot. About 2 months into going on dates and hanging out we had a talk and I asked her about the situation. We both agreed that there would be no longdistance relationship. I suggested we should back off eachother cause it will only make it harder when she left but she didn't want this to end at all. I was really starting to fall for her, I enjoyed all the good times we had together, for once in a long time I was happy again and also didn't want it to end, but I knew that day would come, soon too. I never once tried to have sex with her cause I knew she was leaving and didn't wanna add extra heartache into this situation. My feelings for her was getting stronger and stronger and I couldn't help it. 2 weeks before she left I took her to Blue Bayou Water Park in Baton Rouge. We had the greatest time there. Time was getting short and here I was with this amazing girl that could definatly be LTR material only to know in my mind it was all about to end. The last 4 days before she left we spent it together. Friday I went to her house and hung out, Saturday she invited me to go to her "Going Away Party" at her Grandmother's house and meet her whole family. Sunday she invited me to a Dance Recital which was awesome I have never been to one, and Monday the last time we were together we just hung out at her house. Now she is gone, she left Tuesday @ 10:00 AM. I am missing her a lot. I don't plan on sitting here waiting for her to come back cause I don't know what she will do after her 4 years of the Army. But at the same time I have really fallen for this girl. I am ready for a LTR. She was saying that she might be stationed @ Fort Polk which is an hour or so away from here and would come down every other weekend to see her family and would contact me. Like I said I am not the type of guy to mess with more than one girl at a time. Should I stay away from other girls and just hope that she doesn't find someone else and would come down everyother weekend? I am confused I dunno what to do, what would some of you guys do in this situation?
Sorry for the long story but I just had to get it out.