"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Singel and owning a cat...

Nimm

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So i got dumped about a month ago.
We were together for 5 years.
And during our relationship we decided to get a cat. (Instead of dog, because of the size of the apartment.)

She didn`t want to keep the cat when she moved out. So i got to keep him.

So yesterday i was at a friends house, and we were talking about me being singel.
And my friend said: Whatever you do, dont tell girls that you own a cat.
Puzzled by this i did a google search, and it seems that singel guys with cats are labled creepy.. (Unknown to me)

Does any pet/cat owners have any experience with this?

I`ve really grown fond of my cat over the years. So i would never consider getting rid of him.

But can it really scare off girls? :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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