"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Singel and owning a cat...

Nimm

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So i got dumped about a month ago.
We were together for 5 years.
And during our relationship we decided to get a cat. (Instead of dog, because of the size of the apartment.)

She didn`t want to keep the cat when she moved out. So i got to keep him.

So yesterday i was at a friends house, and we were talking about me being singel.
And my friend said: Whatever you do, dont tell girls that you own a cat.
Puzzled by this i did a google search, and it seems that singel guys with cats are labled creepy.. (Unknown to me)

Does any pet/cat owners have any experience with this?

I`ve really grown fond of my cat over the years. So i would never consider getting rid of him.

But can it really scare off girls? :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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