"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Since you can't quit OLD.....

BaldandBrazy88

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Here's an option for you "Hello Talk" . If you aren't familiar with it keep reading. You enter your native language, the language you want to learn and level you are at. It'll connect you with native speakers (I'm talking to some hotties from Brazil for instance) and you can audios, it'll translate if you can't understand (right there on the app) , call, send images, everything.
Best thing is, it's free.

So, if you gonna be talking to random girls you re probably never meet with, practice a new language.
Ps: there's an option to show you who's around you (if you really really wanna use it as a dating app). This you have to pay for.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BaldandBrazy88

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In any case, I have quit it, quit it probably 5 years ago.

Not to say I would never try it again, but likely not.
1. The bulk of the women on there are damaged. Attractive , healthy women never have to go online to find a date.
2. The slim exception to the above comment, is in extremely rural areas with sparse populations, where it is hard to find a mate/date. The area I live is very sparsely populated.
3. OLD gives women a vastly exaggerated ego and sense of self-worth. All they do is create a profile and sex-deprived thirsty losers are flooding their inbox. I don't want to contribute to that.

I am in a few meet-up groups but due to Covid haven't attended. I think it may be the better option.
Agreed with everything my friend.
 
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