"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Simultaneous Business Trips Sex

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Yachtie

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My girl and I are visiting the same city on business tomorrow (12/2). She has a sweet hotel room to herself and we're planning to meet up (her idea). Last night she says she's concerned that her co-workers might see some random guy (me) coming and going from her room in the evening/night. It's only one night.

She hasn't called it off yet, but I'm over-thinking this ahead of time.

So, any ideas on allaying her concerns or making this work?

Assuming she'll text while in the conference, I'm planning to say:

Her: blah blah blah not a good idea.
Me: Haha.
Me: You're probably cute when you worry about **** like this. It'll be fine and fun. I'll make it worth your while. (too beta?)
Me: ___________ (something along the lines of don't worry, let's bang)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man she's your girlfriend, what's wrong? If her coworkers see you, then she can just tell them that you're her boyfriend. So no problem, and nobody would think it weird.

She's gonna have to agree with that reasoning. If not, just say blabla this blabla that so I'm gonna see you tonight, bye. Before she thinks of anything else ;)

She didn't call it off, that means you can definitely pursue her!
 
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thanks dude -- i appreciate it. we haven't declared ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend but we've been dating/sleeping together since August.
 
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