"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Simultaneous Business Trips Sex

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Yachtie

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My girl and I are visiting the same city on business tomorrow (12/2). She has a sweet hotel room to herself and we're planning to meet up (her idea). Last night she says she's concerned that her co-workers might see some random guy (me) coming and going from her room in the evening/night. It's only one night.

She hasn't called it off yet, but I'm over-thinking this ahead of time.

So, any ideas on allaying her concerns or making this work?

Assuming she'll text while in the conference, I'm planning to say:

Her: blah blah blah not a good idea.
Me: Haha.
Me: You're probably cute when you worry about **** like this. It'll be fine and fun. I'll make it worth your while. (too beta?)
Me: ___________ (something along the lines of don't worry, let's bang)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man she's your girlfriend, what's wrong? If her coworkers see you, then she can just tell them that you're her boyfriend. So no problem, and nobody would think it weird.

She's gonna have to agree with that reasoning. If not, just say blabla this blabla that so I'm gonna see you tonight, bye. Before she thinks of anything else ;)

She didn't call it off, that means you can definitely pursue her!
 
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thanks dude -- i appreciate it. we haven't declared ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend but we've been dating/sleeping together since August.
 
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