"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Simply disappearing to breakup

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What do you guys think is worse: telling the girl you are breaking up with her and then doing no contact, or simply disappearing without saying a word?

Basically have a ongoing issue with a girl and have tried to break numerous times, but always fail to do so. THINK she may have cheated, but I'm crazy about her and just can't seem to walk away. Also, there's that tiny bit of doubt about whether she's done it or not. I know she has lied, but just don't know the extent of it.

I think if I manage not to speak to her for a few days, I'll simply be able to keep that going and that way she'll be out of my life.

She's actually leaving the country soon for about a month, so only need to avoid her for a week or so.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jair213

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if ur 100 percent sure she cheated then cut all contac dissapear from her life. dont say nothing to her.
 

In2theGame

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Agree with the guy above... If your sure she cheated, Pull a Houdini.
 
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