What do you guys think is worse: telling the girl you are breaking up with her and then doing no contact, or simply disappearing without saying a word?
Basically have a ongoing issue with a girl and have tried to break numerous times, but always fail to do so. THINK she may have cheated, but I'm crazy about her and just can't seem to walk away. Also, there's that tiny bit of doubt about whether she's done it or not. I know she has lied, but just don't know the extent of it.
I think if I manage not to speak to her for a few days, I'll simply be able to keep that going and that way she'll be out of my life.
She's actually leaving the country soon for about a month, so only need to avoid her for a week or so.
Basically have a ongoing issue with a girl and have tried to break numerous times, but always fail to do so. THINK she may have cheated, but I'm crazy about her and just can't seem to walk away. Also, there's that tiny bit of doubt about whether she's done it or not. I know she has lied, but just don't know the extent of it.
I think if I manage not to speak to her for a few days, I'll simply be able to keep that going and that way she'll be out of my life.
She's actually leaving the country soon for about a month, so only need to avoid her for a week or so.