Simplify it for you

[cola]

Shh, don't tell the pua guys. 80% of that stuff they teach you is bs. Here's the nitty gritty of what you need to know

Smile.
Maintain eye contact.
Don't: Mention sex unless she does first.
Do: Touch her in a sexual way.
Walk Slow, Talk slow, Speak slow.
Be Fun.
Don't argue with a woman, lack of presence is your argument.
Do lay down your grown rules from the door.
Never let her see you sweat.
2 strike rule. Decide whats a strike. Stick to it.
Lead her ***






Pretty much all you need to know.
Everything else is a sales ploy. This **** really is easy.
Don't forget to lift weights.
Nice muscles to a girl is like nice tits to a guy.

Amendment: Some chicks are just weird. No need to label them bpd, unless you're a shrink. Who knows the diagnosis. When she starts doing weird sh*t just bounce.
Like catching attitudes out the blue etc etc

 

[Konada]

Repped. The simplest game is the hardest to master.

Remember this: Girls who are interested in you make it VERY EASY for you to make a move.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Don't argue with a woman, lack of presence is your argument.

Love this one. Sometimes it's VERY hard to estimate how effective no-contact or freeze-outs are cause you can't see a woman's reaction, but it sure is satisfying to know that the longer the quiet goes on, the more the pendulum slowly tips back in your favor. That is of course the girl still has feelings for you in spite of 2 strikes.

My mantra is simple: men use attention to get sex, women use sex to get attention.

Since women are the arbiters of this exchange, the only way to win is to become a man whose attention is valuable.

 

[Wisconsin144]

Very useful information. I also recommend not feeding her tons of attention. Make her work for it, or you will seem like an easy guy to get.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I agree with the above. Here is my addition: Compliments work when she is already attracted to you.

Guys who study pickup are afraid of compliments, because they don't work to build attraction when it does not exist already. But that mindset makes you lose out on a valuable resource, because when attraction already exists, compliments are a very effective and valuable tool. All women have low self-esteem. They need validation, but from a guy's perspective, that is something you give when things are going well, to further your own cause. Never compliment a clothed woman on her body. Always compliment a naked woman on her body if she just took those clothes off for you...or sent u a naked pic of herself.