"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been on this site for quite a while, and I read it daily cause it helps me kill some time on my fvcking boring job.
I keep coming across the same types of posts.

Here are some simple tips

1. Get off your fvcking ass and just ask the woman out

2. Who gives a shyt if she says no, its not like she pulled your pants down in public. She says no, who cares what she thinks - she just proved she has no taste by rejecting you.

3. Dont read too much into what people say, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

5. Take any chance you get and stop pulling flower petals "she loves me she loves me not" like a 10 year old with a crush and just get out there and make yourself happy - if you're getting conflicting signals, start looking for someone else and hedge your bets.

6. Your time and life is too valuable to be sitting around worrying.

7. If you bomb out with women say like 41 times in a row, either lower your standards and stop whining or find something else to do while you regroup.

8. Sometimes you can do everything right and still not get the girl, then the problem is with the girl.

9. make as many new friends as you can, new friends means new possibilities. Plus you'll feel less alone and empty. (it seems alot of people are these days)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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*stands up and claps*

well said there.
 

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4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Pedro:
4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
????????
 

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Originally posted by DonJoey:
3. Dont read too much into what people say, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
Not if your Bill Clinton!!!


Great tips!!

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Nice guys wait, GOOD guys date!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Pedro:
4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
That's what I just said!

[This message has been edited by DonJoey (edited 10-25-2001).]
 

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Bump (why not everyone else does)
 

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Originally posted by DonJoey:
Bump (why not everyone else does)
I would have bumped but you beat me to it!

Great post!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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